Roleplayers/gamers please help...?

No you're not. Ask him why he needs to do sexy scenes with this b*tch. Then ask him how he'd feel if you were to make up a character and be screwing around with an old guy friend. It's extremely inappropriate and if he doesn't stop tell him he can stop being the character and go get her while you find someone mature enough to use gaming for what it is. Good, clean fun, not an excuse to imagine doing things with someone else.

As a roleplayer / gamer myself, who did this with another man while in a relationship, I can tell you that yes..

He is cheating..

Even if it's a text only game, the feelings are there.. he isn't acting, he is putting a lot of himself when he's doing the chat..

What he imagine, what he's feelings.. it's for her, not for you..

At the time, I was doing it because I had a crush on my gamer friend, and because my "real life" relationship was boring and I needed to go somewhere else to get the rush..

Talk to him calmly and tell him how it makes your feel,

Good luck!

No honey i don't think you are overreacting In my opinion, the mere fact that he is doing it whether game or not eventual one day he will want to make it a reality. Just brace your self and don't be surprise whenever this happen although it may not. Good luck an all the best.

If it's anything, it's an internet relationship. Nothing to worry about. He doesn't care for her, he's just playing the game. When I play RPGs, I get into a character, and once I turn it off, I'm back to me, and nothing that happened in the RPG matters. He's not cheating on you.

I wouldn't call it cheating yet,but although they're only roleplaying now,real feelings could start to emerge and get in the way and make it a reality,id ask him to stop playing the game, and if he doesn't want to stop,then id say those feelings have already started to take place,and id drop him;

Has he actually had contact, or met her? It's a game.

It's you he comes to in real life. Were they sex scenes, or just sexy?

There's a difference. Stop being over-protective and clingy. x

lol that doesnt mean anything haha trust me, i play games all the time...its just something to do (example, in my game u can get married...but u jsut marry ur friends, it doesnt mean anything for most ppl lol)

Get a life.