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Anonymous asked in Society & CultureReligion & Spirituality · 1 decade ago

Is it wrong for a Christian to have a sexual fetish?

Is it wrong for a married Christian couple to engage in ummm fetish sex? or fantasy type sex?

I believe we are free to enjoy sexual experiences and it's not just for procreation..so is "kinky" sex with your spouse wrong?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    I don't think so. God asks us for monogamy, not monotony.

    I think the only time it becomes deviant from your faith is when it becomes more important than you faith, or if you are breaking commandments outright.

    So, sheep---No. A little leather and spankings inside the marriage---go for it.

    Just don't skip church for naked time!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Don't listen to Southern Cross. He is a sexual deviant. He would know that except that he can't find anyone that is willing to have sex with him.

    And your outlook on sex seems healthy. Fantasies and games in this area are perfectly fine unless you start to give them power. By power I mean the belief that something or some activity on the outside can fix whats wrong on your inside.

    Enjoy.

  • Mike K
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    Hello,

    No, not at all. If we did not have these things to drive our desires we wouldn't have sex and our species would eventually come to an end. Also if we procreated every time we had sex , each family would have about 20 or 30 children. There are also physical and psychological benefits for sex as well.

    Cheers,

    Michael Kelly

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Sexual Fetishim is more common than you think amongst the faithful.

    Check out www.sexinchrist.com for more info.

    Whereas the deviancies of the Christians in charge however...

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    No, anything that happens consensually between a husband and wife is okay. After all, we're entitled to spice things up a little too.

  • 1 decade ago

    It probably is, though ironically, fetishes are born of repression, so christianity probably causes more fetishes than anything else.

  • 1 decade ago

    Only if you sex acts include food items, animals, other people and medieval weaponry..... and the sphincter or mouth.

  • YES A TRUE CHRISTIAN SHOULD NEVER BE A SEXUAL DEVIANT

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    wat eva tickles ur fancy

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