a stranger asks me out?

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i met him at a shopping mall. he asked me out on a date. It went well. But i dont know much abt him, heard lots of stories abt sexual harrass and abuse that could happen when u are seeing a stranger. How to know if he is a good person? He invites me to his house but i am scared to go to a stranger's house. How should i handle it? i like him but i dont wanna risk my safety.

he seems like a nice person..but you dunno whether it is real or not

when do u think u can trust him? what should i get out of him to verify he is honest?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

well you could do  a back ground check now that you have his name ... and see if there has been any complaints ... wait on going to his home until you are comfortable with it ... if he doesnt understand that ..then maybe he is hiding something .. you can always try honesty ...just tell him how you feel ....and when you are comfortable ...you can go ... good luck ...

Cinders · Answer

Never never never go to a strangers house. He may have all the best intentions, but you never know. Feel free to go out with him, but see him in a very public place. A cafe would be good. At least in a public place, if he tries anything, you can yell out to draw attention to you both.

Just be careful, let someone know where and when you are going to meet him, and perhaps to call you during the date so that you can decide (and fake) if you want to stay or not.

He could be a really nice guy, so don't just automatically say no and assume he's going to be a creep. Just play it safe until you know him a lot better.

Anonymous · Answer

DONT SAY "YES"! Plz, dont, that what happens to girls or women when they get, well u no what I mean. Plz, dont. He seems like a nice person ... sure ... wait till u go to his house! 
If ur going to go out with him, go to a public place. And dont lead him to ur house, until u get to no him real well. Trust me on this ... GOOD LUCK!!!

zsaryn · Answer

Don't go to his house if you're still scared for your safety. Just go on dates in public places and eventually you'll find out for yourself if you can trust him.

legendking3 · Answer

Don't go to his house. Always go to public places with him. The truth is you can never know what he really is until it's too late.

also remember whatever comes out of his mouth wont always be true.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't know. It's up to you.
If you feel uncomfortable you could tell him you're not ready to go to his house yet and you could both spend time somewhere else, go on more dates, etc.

edit: you're probably being overly cautious- but we can't see because we haven't met him ourselves.

golden1 · Answer

if you like him keep dating outside his home,tell him that you are not comfortable enough with him yet to go to his house.

noshamev · Answer

just dont let there be a stranger in your bed, like the song goes...i dont know by who.. but its great song.

Ange · Answer

I argree with legendking. You are right your safety comes first and i wouldnt go to his house at this moment. But its up to you but please be careful

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