My husband pulled his ring off 2nd wk in police academy. Said he wasn't happy anymore.?

I went thru that.. My husband went thru the sheriffs academy about 14 years ago. Walked out and left me with a four month old baby. The academy or any kind of military WILL change your man. But you have to understand...He needs to make these changes for himself. And he needs to love himself or he won't be able to love anyone.

All this time later.. Guess what...We are still together and married.

Your man is just having a tough time growing into the man he wants to be. Give him the space he needs. He will thank you for it..later.

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Wow, sorry but something is not right, either he has another woman or he is driving you off so he wont have to deal with it. You need to prepare for the worse protect yourself in case there is someone else first then tell him this has to stop talk to him and tell him if he doesn't change you are leaving and cant live in an unloving home. and mean it!! Don't wait until he has someone all lined up then dumps you .Do you have kids? Put some money away and make sure you can have a place to live when you leave if it comes to that. He needs to change or it will soon end as you will loose respect for him...

oh great dont tell me that, my boyfriend is going to be a cop. We are just in highschool. You should probably just ask why he is not happy anymore. Maybe he just is away from you for long time. but do not give up just yet, It probably is stress, because my boyfriends dad is a cop also and he says its the hardest part of being the cop is the academy. Just wait.. but goodluck, talk it out... hope i was help and sorry if i was not

It could be stress -IF- he is still in the police academy!!!... didn't you go to the orientation for the academy with him???... if you did then you saw how they work there A$$ off!!! if you didn't then you missed in something really good!!!...(you would understand what they go through)... if he is a cop already and he's acting like this then maybe he has another -woman- he is a cop!!!... i hope i helped!!!...

It could be either or. Men go through stages in their lives and i dont know how long you guys have been married but i would say he has delayed cold feet. Guys are not ones to talk about their feelings as much, so every once in a while, tell him how ur feeling, but don;t ask him how he's feeling. Wait and see if he tells you on his own. If he doesn't, leave it alone. Another way to go about it, is to leave for a few days and hope he realises how much he loves you and misses you.

That's really odd behavior. How well do you know him? I mean if this is really unlike him, then you have to be suspicious. I mean was he normally a loving person to you? I don't blame you for thinking the worse, but man 2 weeks? He sure works fast if it's another woman. And if it's stress, again 2 weeks?? Low tolerance for stress,, shouldn't be a cop either.

A lot of people are gonna say it's another woman, but it's law enforcement. There is so much stress in the academy - they lose their identity - and this possibly could have happened.

The only one who knows the answer to that is him. Try to have an honest, open conversation with him and don't judge. Just be an understanding, open wife. If he won't talk, perhaps counseling is on the horizon. I wish you the best of luck! *hugs*

maybe hes just a little stressed give him some space he might feel a little over protected by you talk to him about it and let him tell you how he feels maybe he fells you don't listen if it dosent work try a marriage councilor.