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swiftmod asked in HealthMental Health · 1 decade ago

missery is my company?

im so fed up. i took out a loan i can barely afford to buy the car of my dreams three weeks ago. my friend had a baby this morning and on the way to see them i lost control and went across and into two sign poles on other side of road and spun violently several times.i not sure if it even fixable.myself and the missus walked away without a scratch.my question is is it wrong to have wished to have died instead.i feel so low and cant stand the constant kicking while im down

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you all make it sound easy but my insurance is third party and i cant afford medical bills and dont have medical card. i always try to keep myself happy and those around me but for too long and all these set backs have drained the very soul from me.thanks for the advise but im on my own as usual.

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    If you have car insurance I wouldn't worry about it. YOu will have to pay a deductable. Just deal with it and be more careful. Live and Learn from mistakes. Be thankful no one got hurt or killed! That would have been really hard to deal with. At least a car is replaceable

  • 1 decade ago

    Hi, live simply and well within your means. Dont be pressured into spending money on material good. A man is not defined by what he owns but what he does. Above all, say repeatedly to yourself, 'I are a valuable being, an respect myself.' Smile a lot, even if you dont want to, breathe deeply and slowly, and

    identify muscle tensions so you can release them; much negative thinking is held in tension.

    Peace.

    Source(s): experience.
  • 1 decade ago

    Your suffering with depression. You must see a doctor. That is what there there for. There their to help you. He/she can give you some tablets that will lift you up a bit. But you must be patient. The test of time will tell. Hay stop worrying.

    Peace,

  • 1 decade ago

    you need to get some proffesional help, see your GP

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