can men be used just for sex?

I think its weird that she doesn't want you to be around her friends. and you guys have know each other for 6 years. it sounds like she is hideing something..maybe she just likes the way your relationship is. did you ever try telling her how you feel? If that is all she wants and you want more, then find someone else. their are plenty of other people in the world. and although it might seem as if you don't want anyone else, just give it a try. I hope everything works out the way you want it to..Good Luck!

Women are very complicated beings and our emotions some times get the better of us and we don't know what to think or how act or even what it is that we want to do.

Sexual relations tent to just over complicate the matter because for most women at least it leaves some type of since of attachment and then there is the fact that emotional needs might have been met too.

I am a strong believer in GOOD communication. I think that she you should sit down with her and tell her how you are feels and ask her these questions.

I mean some one else can speculate all they want and try and guess what is going on with her and what not but only she really knows and so why not go straight to the source for the answers?

Good Luck !!

You said watch movies and make out? Im not sure if your confused, but thats not sex. How old are you dude? Anyway, dont worry about it, if your getting the goods without the work its cool. You have something to hold you over untill you find someone who wants to spend time with you. In my opinion its a win win situation. ENJOY IT WHILE IT LASTS!!!

Undoubtedly you are of a mind to commit your self to her solely but she's only willing to continue your relationship on the level that it began on . Your best bet is to sit down and talk to her about your innermost feelings instead of banging your head against the wall. I wouldn't settle for less if I know that I have a choice in the matter,and if they're not in it with you ,well you know what you must do. And to answer your question is YES...

You get to pick who you want to be in a relationship with. Does this relationship make you feel good? Probably not!! I wouldn't want a relationship like that. I would tell her that you aren't happy with the way things are and see what she has to say. You deserve someone that you can spend time with and get to know their family and friends and grow together. It's a lot more fun :)

obviously she is using you for what reason i don't know but take it form me honey you need to dump her if she says that she misses you its because she really does not to show you off to her friends i mean you are not a piece of art to be bragging about to other ppl now i am not saying that when she boast about you then its not good cause it is but i am saying too much of it and be annoying and it all depends if y'all have a love relationship or whatever you may call it but if she really does she needs to spend alone time with you there are all the time in the world for her Lil friends she needs to find you and her time try it out for a couple weeks sit her and down and talk to her about it if she does not try and continues to act the way she does dump her that is just one of the sacrifices for finding the one you love........................................................

You both are friends with benefits....Any guy will kill for that...

Don't ruin the relationship. Keep it the way it is...No strings attached.

but if you really care for this person now...Take on consideration that you might loose her.

Yup... sad but true... its all good man.. i think when a girl is "trying" to use me.. im useing her because i love having sex with a girl with no strings attached... its like free booty. dont have to worry bout her bitching... arguing... anything like that... but if u really like her alot... that just sux man

Yes obviously, you make it sounds like it's only girls that can be used for sex.

it sounds a little opposite than most of us are used to hearing, but yeah its completely possible.

It actually does sound like she's using you.. sorry

this is usually a guy thing, but hey i guess she wants to be like that as well