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We see eachother for years and now it's been like 3 times he doesn't call for 3 weeks to a month I sent 3 messages and no answer then out of no where he texted after3 weeks why would anyone do that,what can I reply to his text I'm wondering if I should even write back ! Any suggestions ?

I have been seeing someone on and off since 2004 I told them I cant comitt so we kept it simple ,seeing eachother 2 a week and since I have this fobia I would leave after spending time with them usually at 2 am, I tryed to sleep there but would feel too many feelings so Id leave and the person promised we wont hurt eachother. Since november I was busy and failed to make time for that individual as a result they have not answered my calls or text messages, I truly am in love with them and want to see them any suggestions what can be done to re gain contact with them ?

someone in my family always talks about their life and friends stuff that's so boring and it lasts so Long to hear them out ,i cant walk away cause when i come back its worst they continue talking it drives me insane how do i say in a nice way i dont want to hear it its boring go away find someone whos your age and cares to listen .they need to know before i scream or say something mean

I have been dating a girl for 2 years we both were divorced and I told her I want to take it slow now we see each other 2 x a week ,we were on and off for 4 years yet now the last two I think we got closer since she e mails and texts me a lot and makes dates 2x a week and we always have a great time ,this Xmas's as previous ones she planed without me are most girls in their late 30 like this or is this normal ? she said she cant wait to spend time together after Xmas's since she did not mention any gifts I only got her a box of chocolates and a x mass card she said thank you and that was it, any suggestions what kind of relationship this is ?

or experiences similar its been 8weeks now that my partner keeps finding excuses for us not to get together . Always returns my call and it happened that 1 time i text messaged she claimed to forget her phone at her girlfriends then she said maybe tonight then cancels and says shes too tired and makes another date and backs out with a legitimate excuses .She has a list of excuses I asked if she met someone she claims no that its work and family .any suggestions or life experiences to share a point of view, we have been dating with no promises for 2 years now.

I care and dont know what to say she said things should calm down in the near future ....any opinions would help

I was seeing this wonderful girl for2 years we know each other for 9 we were seeing each other before on and off for the last 9 years.The last 3 months shes been saying shes busy I asked if she met someone she claims not too says its her work and family,I really care for her and was hoping we continue to see each other we both agreed not to be exclusive one day I was on the phone with my ex and she was there just chat tin I have nothing to hide so yes I told her it was my ex and ever since that day its all been rotten,shes claiming to be busy refuses to talk what can I say for her to realize I care for her and would like to spend time with her.

its been 3 weeks now that my partner keeps finding excuses for us not to get together . Always returns my call and it happened that 1 time i text messaged she claimed to forget her phone at her girlfriends then she said maybe tonight then cancels and says shes too tired and makes another date then backs out with a ligitimate excuses .She has a list of excuses I asked if she met someone she said no .any suggestions or life experiances to give opinon

i have been seeing someone on and off for a few years,we both have our own issues and we try to work them yet one issue has been getting to me is the fact that any time we get close and start spending more time together I find reasons to leave or say I'm busy.Now its gotten to a point that my partner is doing the same its been 2 weeks since we spend time together we talk every day or e mail and my partner claims to be busy and tired when they get home and cancel ling our dates,so I'm not sure whats going on whats your opinion on what to say or do. I do care I'm just afraight of commitment and I want to know whats going on.Why all the story's of being tie-rd and rescheduling

I have lots of feelings for someone I have been seeing for a long time,I feel this person is worth my time I also am ready to tell them that I suffer from commitment phobia I never told this to anyone I find this person is worth all and want them to know this since at times I do weird things,any suggestions on how or what I should say

My partner of 5 years made plans with me I asked to re schedual for next day partner agrees next day no call no answer . They come back with a excuse they were at the family an emergency because a family member passed away and didnt bring their phone they apologize and all is understood and normal .We talked about setteling in she was all happy and normal .

we make plans for another day they said ok they will reschedual their plans with their friends so we see eachother I reply no go with your friends since I want her to feel better and not grief ,well reschedual for next day.Next day same story as last time no call no responds whats going on what to do what to say I care so much for her yet I dont know what to do at this point any suggestions on what to do or say ? this started not too long ago I dont undrestand whats happening

My partner of 5 years made plans with me I asked to re schedual for next day partner agrees next day no call no answer . They come back with a excuse they were at the family an emergency because a family member passed away and didnt bring their phone they apologize and all is understood and normal .

we make plans for another day they said ok they will reschedual their plans with their friends so we see eachother I reply no go with your friends well reschedual for next day.Next day same story as last time no call no responds whats going on what to do what to say I m very interested in this person yet I dont know what to do at this point any suggestions on what to do or say ?

I woke up this morning in tears unable to stop crying,this has never happend before,my chestt felt all tight and was unable to fall asleep.Usually I sleep 5 h a night I have a healthy life style dont drink or smoke.I have been edge and the only changes that have been is a new baby which is very positive what can this be.

I woke up this morning in tears unable to stop crying,this has never happend before,my chestt felt all tight and was unable to fall asleep.Usually I sleep 5 h a night I have a healthy life style dont drink or smoke.I have been edge and the only changes that have been is a new baby which is very positive what can this be.

I was raised in religion catholc .I have always belived in being a good person, and helping others ,loving unconditionally. I went to church, for the past few years I belive that God is all forgiven and we have a choice to believe or not to.Hell I belive exists here on earth and we are here to learn and go to God when we are done here as for those who are different religions maybe they all get judged on to what they belive ?

I have been seeing this girl on and off for the past 6 years we started off as fooling around with eachother cause back then we were both involved with other people then we broke up and continued to see eachother the last 2 years we have been dating 3 times a week or so I have not met any of her friends and she chooses to do all her activities with her friends all she wants us to do is hang out at home watch movies and well make out we never did do stuff yet now I want to and she prefers doing activities with her friends that I never met whats going on in her head is she seriouse or what does she want from me any opinions can she have someone else and Im on the side am I used just for sex suggestions and opinions please oh she also gets these times where shell text me saying she misses me and wants to see me then a few weeks later shes aloof then the pattern re starts of how she misses me and so on ....I care yet I dont know what the F*** to think anymore a

This indiividual and I both had an affair with eachother its been 6 years and we still see eachother I feel im in love with that person yet I can not trust her because I know we both started to see eachother while we were with other people and now the doubts have been there for all those years I want to comitt to her yet I have trouble to trust her and I feel she has trouble to trust me since we both started to see eachother while being in a relationship ..... now when she says she going out or working or the phone rings she tells me who it is and tryes to re assure me .... I want to trust her yet I know what we both did in the past seemed to have left a permanent scar .....any opinions on what can be done to comitt further to the relationship and regain trust ? to make the doubts go away is it possible I know I love her and want to be with her its the doubts that we both created that are haunting .Suggestions please

I have been with this individual for a few years we dont live together I feel I am in love with this person yet too scared to move in or comitt to a more promising relationship I am so happy the times we have and do spend together over the last sevral years its been the best relationship I have ever had that if we comitt or move in all this might mess up I dont want to risk loosing what we have I dont know what else could be done any opinions suggestions ????

I have been seeing someone special for a few years I told that person I dont want a comitment and that person agreed they always respected me and now I see that person more often every time I arrive there they have this sexxxy smile and we are so happy when we spend time together I think of that person on regular basis and any time I want to see them I call and they make arrangements and we both free our schedual so we can meet , after a few years of thinking and got to know we both respect eachothers choices and we get along great I realized I do want to be commited to them yet I dont know what to tell them or how to hint it out to them that I realized this ????

I have just settled in My life is slowley getting to a point to where I want to be , I moved a lot before not by choice I always wanted to live in one place ,recentley a friend asked me to move across the country sounds excellent and by habit exciting yet the reality remains that I do not want to leave all the hard work I did to settle here I do not want to start new yet I dont want to close this opportunity what is there to consider thats very important , what would you consider all the poins please.My friend keeps on pushing me to just go ...yet this is so far away what is your opinion

I am not familiar with pagen religion I heard that in this religion when a couple get married they have a open marriage and have sex with other people and all together when their community gets together is this true is it a ritual and do all members do this or some or is this all myth ? and there are closed marriages