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after 5 years shes acting weird?

My partner of 5 years made plans with me I asked to re schedual for next day partner agrees next day no call no answer . They come back with a excuse they were at the family an emergency because a family member passed away and didnt bring their phone they apologize and all is understood and normal .We talked about setteling in she was all happy and normal .

we make plans for another day they said ok they will reschedual their plans with their friends so we see eachother I reply no go with your friends since I want her to feel better and not grief ,well reschedual for next day.Next day same story as last time no call no responds whats going on what to do what to say I care so much for her yet I dont know what to do at this point any suggestions on what to do or say ? this started not too long ago I dont undrestand whats happening

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  • Kym M
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Why not just go and see her and tell her you are there for her or just hang out with her and her friends for awhile. When you do get in contact with her then ask her straight out what's up. If you think she is up to something then just move on or if she is genuinely busy or grieving then maybe give her space but let her know you are there for her. Either way you will know if you are wasting your time or not. Good luck. :)

  • Maybe she is having anxiety about the relationship, did anything come up lately to freak her out? Maybe a marriage proposal, pregnancy scare or talk of kids? Just talk to her and ask if there is anything she wants to talk about and that if she needs you that you are there for her and love her. Hope everything works out be positive!!!

  • q&a99
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    If it carries on for the next week then I think you should get suspicious and just try to treat her right more than anything, if your worried that she is cheating then you just have to, more then anything, just treat her properly and actually love her, don't give her a reason to want to leave you. If you just get suspicious and ask loads of questions of course she is just going to deny it and then you ill end up ruining your relationship on a hunch.

    So just treat her right and keep your eyes and ears open.

  • 1 decade ago

    You need to talk to your partner. Find out what is going on. If he/her feeling have changed you need to know. Good luck

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Sounds like she's lost interest; sorry but usually that means they've met somebody else.

  • 1 decade ago

    buddy shes probably cheating on you.

  • 1 decade ago

    She is playing you. Sorry.

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