how would you respond to your mate if after 5 years they start to act weird?

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My partner  of 5 years made plans with me I asked to re schedual for next day partner agrees next day no call  no answer . They come back with a excuse they were at the family  an emergency because a family member  passed away and didnt bring their phone  they apologize and all is understood and normal .
 we make plans for another day they said ok they will reschedual their plans with their friends so we see eachother I reply no go with your friends well reschedual for next day.Next day same story as last time no call no  responds whats going on what to do what to say I m very interested in this person yet I dont know what to do at this point any suggestions on what to  do or say ?

Dana · Accepted Answer

Ummm, I think it's time to sit down and have a long talk with her.  It's seems something might to wrong.  Don't worry too much, it might not be that big a deal, but better to find out then keep guessing.

it is what it is... · Answer

It sounds like you should try to sit down with them a ask them what's going on. You have a right to know whether they're intentionally avoiding you or there's something else going on You probably won't find peace unless you do this and get their side of the story. Good luck and I hope things turn out the way you would like them to.

sulieman · Answer

yeah
set with the them & discuss the matter frankly .
 in my opinion the  best way to solve the problem is with the  dialogue .( talk & listen )
 I hope things  go will as you would . good luck

sara l · Answer

yeah sweety! im sorry to say this but you should "get the hint"! you shouldnt run after people who are not reliable and dont want to meet u!

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