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I said no a few years ago today I dont know how to ask for yes?

I have been seeing someone special for a few years I told that person I dont want a comitment and that person agreed they always respected me and now I see that person more often every time I arrive there they have this sexxxy smile and we are so happy when we spend time together I think of that person on regular basis and any time I want to see them I call and they make arrangements and we both free our schedual so we can meet , after a few years of thinking and got to know we both respect eachothers choices and we get along great I realized I do want to be commited to them yet I dont know what to tell them or how to hint it out to them that I realized this ????

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  • kim h
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Do not hint. People never catch on. Ask him if he is still interested in a relationship with you because the more you get to know him the more you think that you have changed your mind. Be open a direct.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Think back to why you first didn't want this commitment. Was it simply because you were scared, if so you still have that fear and women want to hear you feelings all the time. It makes them feel secure. If you have trouble expressing your feelings you need help with that because it is very important to a relationship.

  • 1 decade ago

    Um... try telling them. You've grown and matured.

    I remember when I decided that I wanted to marry my wife. I just told her that I couldn't imagine the rest of my life without her, and she agreed.

    Tell her that you've grown and matured, and you realize that you love her, and that you want to make a more formal commitment to her. Even if it is just getting engaged, with no wedding date set. You're happy... go with it!

  • 1 decade ago

    Be honest and tell them how you feel. Maybe they still feel the same way about you and that is why they always make time for you no matter what.

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  • 1 decade ago

    I know how you feel. I just ended up telling them how I felt and they ended up agreeing but were also afraid to say anything.

  • 1 decade ago

    Just tell her what's in your heart..i'm sure she'll appreciate it and be very happy. Maybe do something special..buy flowers..special dinner...write a poem..anything sweet.

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  • 1 decade ago

    too late

  • 1 decade ago

    You snoozed

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    A simple kiss.....

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