scared of a promise to say I love you?

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I have been with this individual for a few years we dont live together I feel I am in love with this person  yet too scared to move in or comitt to a more promising relationship I am so happy the times we have and do spend together over the last sevral years  its been the best relationship I have ever had that if we comitt or move in all this might mess up I dont  want to risk loosing what we have I dont know  what else could be done any opinions suggestions ????

chandra · Accepted Answer

Why change anything???

There is no rush when it comes to these things - in fact its good not to rush!

If you said you had been with this person for 8 years or something - then I would be worried!

They say its best to wait 2 years first to find out if the other person is the right one to commit to.....after all we have all fallen in love with the WRONG person before.....and just the 'being in love' does not neccessarily warrant commitment

So - keep enjoying your relationship

And in time - if you REALLY feel they are ''the one''....then go ahead......but if you have ANY doubts that they are the one - then sadly - you'll have to move on!

PS How many years is several years? I think I misread the question......I do feel worried that you may have a problem actually!

catman · Answer

You need to make the next step if you really love this person. Because if you don't sooner or later that person might decide to leave for someone who's willing to make a commitment.

Green Eyes isall I&#39;z got · Answer

Dude, don't move in with him... get married.  This is not a rent-a-center.

Anonymous · Answer

Then how will you ever know?

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