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Does fobia to comitment exist ? and if so what to do ?

I have been seeing someone on and off since 2004 I told them I cant comitt so we kept it simple ,seeing eachother 2 a week and since I have this fobia I would leave after spending time with them usually at 2 am, I tryed to sleep there but would feel too many feelings so Id leave and the person promised we wont hurt eachother. Since november I was busy and failed to make time for that individual as a result they have not answered my calls or text messages, I truly am in love with them and want to see them any suggestions what can be done to re gain contact with them ?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    It's called Commitment Issues I'm not sure theres a cure maybe if you find someone that captivates you just like you really love and you feel you can't live without TRUE LOVE i'm sure that fear would go away then

  • Chris
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    You were trying to guarantee each other a lack of pain. Oops, didn't work! Try sending a bouquet of flowers. And don't get too gushy with the note. A simple "Sorry, I was wrong" will suffice. And if he wants to know more than that, he'll call. Be a little mysterious; make him want to call you.

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