2 years of dating and no xmass or new years any suggestions ?

I have been dating a girl for 2 years we both were divorced and I told her I want to take it slow now we see each other 2 x a week ,we were on and off for 4 years yet now the last two I think we got closer since she e mails and texts me a lot and makes dates 2x a week and we always have a great time ,this Xmas's as previous ones she planed without me are most girls in their late 30 like this or is this normal ? she said she cant wait to spend time together after Xmas's since she did not mention any gifts I only got her a box of chocolates and a x mass card she said thank you and that was it, any suggestions what kind of relationship this is ?