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Can one person completely ruin your life?

I don't know my ex bestfriend she has done so much bad things to me and ofcourse now that we are enmies I feel so intimated by her like this girl is evil! shes 18 shes in the modeling busines and what not and i felt if I did modeling or anything near her she will try to ruin my life and make so many people against me and many more! Even though I know alot of stuff about her she wouldn't want people to know and nothing important about me but i will never get back like that im not evil anyways what do i do to stop feeling this way

sorry for bad writing!

Update:

she is out of my life I live 5 hours away from her

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    . Ya, usually only ONE person can screw up Your life: YOU.

    It's a big world out there. I think you can avoid this witch long enough for all bad feelings to fade.

  • 1 decade ago

    Only if the person is you! Love yourself, try to love others like her, because they are really very sad inside. Don't forget that things that seem really important today, aren't so significant when you look back on them (and sometimes they're even funny). Glad she's far away now. Get over it and move on to better friends.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    leave the past and all the bad things behind and focus on the present and on the future. Think, Good thoughts, put yourself in to beautiful surroundings and look up and thank God for each new day. read the Bible and find out who God is and everything about Him, then your life will get easy and happy.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    How catty. You have to distance yourself from this girl & her line of fire because it sounds as though she will stop at nothing until she has wiped you out. She obviously is threatened by you & your best bet is to be happy & live your life & show her how good you're doing without her & she will hate that she doesnt have an impact on you anymore....

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  • 1 decade ago

    Yes they can. Some people act like the plague. You have to get them out of your life.

  • 1 decade ago

    that's happened to me. it's like guys, just let it go... you'll get over it and you'll have days where you don't even think about her... the way i saw it, there's way too many ppl in the world, so you can't just worry about one, AND there are ppl out there who have more enemies than friends. at least you're not one of them.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    sounds like crab-mentality, where she pulls you down if ever you become competitive with her. You need to forget about her and find a new best friend.

  • 1 decade ago

    If you don't live near her i wouldn't even worry about her.

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