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Lars
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Lars asked in Society & CultureEtiquette · 1 decade ago

I'm on a first date. I have no money. Which is considered better manners?

Asking my woman to pay?

Or telling her to casually walk out the door and wait for me at my moped while I tell the hostess I left my wallet in the car?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Haha.

    I'd say don't arrange a date without some money :)

  • 1 decade ago

    Thats a Tuff one man! My girl never had a problem paying but i always made sure she knew i was broke lol. However it isnt the way is soupossed to go. I deff would not pull the old wallet trick ! That would make the girl think less or you ablity to rememember things. Dont show any weakness's to wemon they feed from them LMAO Honestly bro scrape you change get some mcdonalds and take her to the park and tell her you wanna know about her ;) later one youll be playin matress tunes :P Peace and have fun!

    Source(s): Me of course lol
  • dupee
    Lv 4
    4 years ago

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  • 1 decade ago

    I would make sure you have money before you even ask for the date (or is it just that you forgot the money?)...I would find either of the options you give highly rude, though if I had to pick one, I would ask the woman to pay, but make sure you reimburse her the next day. I agree with another poster, most likely no second date.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Oh dear !!

    I suspect that you have a confidence issue here and have possibly lied to your date in order to impress (this is never a good move) She is not "your woman" she is a human being. If you have lied you should come clean.

    If the human being of which you speak is interested in you then a walk or a coffee should be all that is required, if more is needed then she is as shallow as you, you are well suited but destined to be mutually lonely.

  • 1 decade ago

    You shouldn't invite her on a date if you don't have the money to pay. At the very least, you should explain your situation to her. She might offer to pay if she really likes you.

    Get some money before you start dating.

  • 1 decade ago

    Checking for your wallet before getting to your destination date place.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    yeah, if youre trying to go on a second date id say either of those ideas are pretty poor ideas.

    try going on a free date somewhere. they can be super fun. but still, id advise to bring a little cash, just in case. dates kind of elicit money.

  • 1 decade ago

    Sounds like this first date will not be leading to a second.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    first make some money. at least a little.

    then you split the bill.

    otherwise it's a drag to make the woman pay all the tab.

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