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How do I convince my boyfriend to use condoms when we start having sex?

Hi everyone. In a few weeks, my boyfriend and I are going to meet and will likely have sex while he is down here visiting me. Anyway, I don't know how open he is to using condoms but I want to use condoms to prevent any possible spread of disease and to prevent pregnancy. What can I say or do to convince him to use a condom when he has sex with me?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    tell him to use one or your not gonna have sex with him ( =

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    If you don't use condoms if you have not gotten tested with him.. shame on you if anything happens... Don't play with your health.. and if he was a real man, he would go get tested for status comfort, but better yet, wear a condom.. so if he doesn't want too, then he is not the man for you.. I think it is great that you care about your health to protect yourself, alot of people don't think!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Tell him condoms help to prevent pregnancy. Now tell him unless he has a document stating that he is AIDS free, Hepatitis B free, STD free, genital warts free, herpes free, etc., feel free to add more in, then you will not chance a life long condition that will probably lead to your death. If he has had sex before with someone else, then whoever that person slept with could have passed something on to him, and he could pass it on to you. If he loves you, he won't have a problem.

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  • Riley
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    First of all, you shouldn't have sex with him if you are worried about disease. It doesn't sound like you know him very well if you aren't certain that he is disease free. Convince him? How about "Honey, I am not having sex with you unless we use a condom." Before having sex with him I would demand a test to make sure he's disease free.

  • 1 decade ago

    girl u need to take charge dont have sex with him unless u use a condom he has no right to say that u cant use a condom stand up for urself and just tell him k i know that u can do it good luck

  • 1 decade ago

    i would tell him that he will last longer with a condom on and that you want the exsperience to last...hope it works good luck

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    TELL HIM HE NEEDS TO HAVE RESPECT FOR YOUR BODY AND YOU DO NOT WANT ANY STD'S OR TO GET PREGNANT SO HE NEEDS TO USE A CONDOM. HE MAY TELL YOU THAT HE DOSEN'T HAVE ANY SO TO BE SAFE YOU SHOULD BUY SOME TOO.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Tell him to use one. And tell him that if he doesnt, and you get pregant, you'll make him be the main caretaker. :]

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    buy some fancy ones - studded, vibrating, flavored, glow in the dark ect.

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