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BOY PROBLEM boy problem BOY PROBLEM boy problem! PLEASE HELP!? :(?

i know for a fact this guy likes me. his friends keep telling me i should ask him out. and he knows i like him... but we dont know each other/talk to each other/see each other that much because we're both shy & also have no classes together. he's cocky/confident around other ppl, but when i pass by him it looks like he doesnt even notice i'm right by him and I ALWAYS HAVE TO BE THE ONE TO WAVE HI. and when he waves back it looks like he just wants to get away from me as soon as he can or hes scared or confused. and at first i thought it was cause he knew i liked him and he didnt like me back. but lately his friends tell me he's shy and "trust me you should just ask him out" but how can i ask a guy out that wont even talk to me??? sometimes it seems like he IS shy and wont talk to me. and then sometimes its like he either doesnt care im next to him or doesnt even know. whats the deal????!

Update:

i feel like i HAVE to make every move because he's shy. but at the same time i dont want to seem so desperate... im just scared if I DONT do something then he's not gonna and thats even worse because NOTHING will happen.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    I think you should just wait for a while longer. His actions seem confusing, but you can never tell whether he likes you or not unless he over comes his shyness. So wait for a while longer and see if he will make the first move and overcome his shyness. If he doesn't make the first move, you can try to open up to him by talking and spending some time trying to get to know him personally. If he still doesn't over come his shyness, you can ask him out.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    If you ask me, I wouldn't do anything. I think he's just to shy to bother with. I know that sounds kind of cruel, but do you really want a bf who is acting this way around you. Find someone more outgoing and responsive to what you do and are like, around him. He seems like to much work. Maybe in time he will mature to the point where he can talk more to you and then you can think to pursue it. Sometimes working for someone's attention just isn't worth it. I don't think he would be too much of a loss, as he is right now.

  • sunny
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    He probably is really shy and because he likes you so much he is afraid of saying the wrong thing or looking stupid and then you wouldn't want to talk to him anymore. So if you are less shy and you like him too then go up to him and try to start a conversation or small talk. Once he gets more comfortable around you and not so stressed out then he will loosen up and have a lot of things to talk with you about.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Girl use you your gut feeling. If you think its a bad idea then it probably is. You should get to know the guy before you attempt to date him. And whatever happened to boys asking girls out. I know were in a new century but COME ON! If he is really interested in you he will make an effort to get to know you. Shake him off and find a guy who wants to give you the time of day.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Professionally speaking I would conclude that this young man is "Light in the Loafers" or at least contemplating a life of pitching and catching with his new friend Bruce. Move on!!

  • 1 decade ago

    RULE # 1 IN GIRL DATE BOOK!!!!!

    dont ask him out...

    what a fagggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggg.

    haha jk

    but if he likes you tell his friends HE has to make the first move or your not interested.!!!

    take control!

    annnnnd.

    tell them...even if you are shy, that shyness isnt very attractive. you would like to TALK to your boyfriend if you had one.

    not just exchange glances..

    haha

  • 1 decade ago

    A girl I like recently moved, and thats kind of how it was for me... I wanted to talk to her, but was too shy. I am a nerd, so I have a reason... Lol, I really wish you luck, Idk this one.

  • 1 decade ago

    I think you should just ask him out.

    Maybe he just is shy around you and feels uncomfortable around you.

  • Anne
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    You should get to know him first before you get serious.

  • 1 decade ago

    hes nervous...i get nervous a lot like that around girls i like

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