Dad just found out daughter isn't as innocent as he always thought.?

okay....i dont think she should have to keep the baby to "learn from her mistakes" i mean cuz thats like an on going punishment for the rest of her life. her life could end up ruin. becuz of this she could end up one day poor, without a husband, all teh otehr moms thinking shes a slut, etc.

i think she should give it up for adobtion or abort it....based on YALLS desision. i think either would be fine. if she gave it up for adoption she would have wasted about a year of her life. if shes aborts it...nothing to lose except a baby. and if she keeps it then shes lost her life. becuz even if she does find a good job or a husband or the other kids moms arent rude for her. shell have to miss out on being a teen before she barley even is one. and then shell always have the struggle of taking care of a kid without a father. sit her down and ask her if she wants to keep it, give it up, or abort it. and tell her what things shell lose in life if she keeps it. make sure she knows what shell lose if she gives it up. she might not be able to play a sport, or do many other things girls that age are interested in. just explain to her everything that could go right and wrong. let her sleep on it...and then make her decision.

i wish u the best

Tara <33333

You can have an abortion up to 13 weeks, it is riskier and more traumatic but they can abort up to 24weeks in some countries. However there are other options to consider, adoption and keeping the baby. How old is your daughter? How does she feel about being pregnant and having a baby? What does the baby's father think, does he know? It must be tough for your husband to find out his daughter is no longer his little girl but an abortion doesnt make the problem go away, your daughter will have to live with the decision the rest of her life. Its something everyone will have to sit down and calmly and rationally discuss without getting angry or throwing out accusations. At the end of the day the only one who can make the decision is your daughter. Please support her in whatever choice she makes.

I don't know how far along she can be for an abortion, but she needs to make that choice, not her father. She is the one that will have to live w/ that desicion the rest of her life. If she is forced to do something like that if she doesn't want to do it, than she will really become a problem child - she'll be rebellious towards you guys, will distance herself from you, & will probably end up depressed &/or a drunk, &/or a drug addict.

I think she has known about this since her first missed period & didn't know how to tell you. And I think she waited until she was 3 mos cuz she wants to keep the baby.

I think that it would be in best interest if she had the baby. Having an abortion when the baby is this far along is way to much like murder. If the father is so against it then she should just have the baby put up for adoption or she should just tell her father what she thinks. After all it is her body and her baby and she will do whay she thinks is right. Hope this Helps! =D

It's not too late to get an abortion... but, that is not up to her dad to decide. She needs to make that choice on her own. If she wants to keep this baby, and dad 'makes' her abort, she will resent him for the rest of her life. If you make her keep this baby, and she doesn't want it, then she will also resent you for the rest of her life. Bottom line, she needs to be educated about her choices. Take her to family planning... they are awesome there, and give all the information about all options available. They are very understanding, and non-judgemental.... perhaps they can equip her with the appropriate info as to what she would like to do. Ultimatly, this is HER child, and she needs to choose for herself, without presure from you or dad... just make sure she EDUCATES herself about child rearing, abortion, and adoption. If she is uninformed about the consequences of each action or if she has false presumptions about them, then she may make the wrong decision. But seriously... don't let dad talk her into this if she doesn't want to do it.

I agree abortion is wrong! I wouldn't care if she was 1 day pregnant...11 weeks pregnant or 9 months pregnant it is wrong!! She for sure needs you right now. I'm very impressed with your mothers intuitions. Sorry to have to ask this since were contacts with eachother but how old is your daughter?? I really hope she doesn't go through with an abortion and that her dad stops insisting that she gets one. Stick to your guns Bigmama!! Good Luck!

dont make her keep a baby to "learn from her mistakes" how does that help anyone. but dad needs to back up a minute. he has no right to force her into this. this is a family desciion. you all need to sit and talk. not yell. but talk. what kind of a girl is your daughter. can she handle a baby? are you and your husband in a positon to help raise it? this is a big change and it needs more then a demand from one person. find out where your daughter stands in all this. let her voice be heard.

she may have messed up by getting pregnant. she is lucky it wasnt something fatal. but what ever is decided this is your daughter we are talking about. tread carefully and love her all the way through.,

Have you even considered what you daughter wants? 'dad is mad and wants her to have an abortion" wow how nice, forcing she daughter into killing her child... if she wants one then fine but you cant MAKE someone kill their child. And she's alway been her daddies girl so how much do you think that hurt her. You should talk to her about it. she's probably scared and hurting and she need her mummy. Dont force into anything because tha will only make her hate you.

Just how old is 'Daddy's little girl'? Is she over 18? If so, she's an adult and the decision to abort or have the baby is hers alone. Daddy needs to butt out.

in most country's the limit to abortion is 12 weeks now in my opinion abortion is wrong and i see it as if Ur willing to have sex your willing to face the consequences which in this case is a baby you need to talk to your daughter and ask her what she wants to do if she wants to keep the baby talk to your other half about this explain to him this is a life lesson and something that she wants if he is still upset ask him how he feels about killing his own grandchild or how he would have felt if you had of had an abortion if Ur Daughter doesn't want it it then up to you.. good luck hope i helped i will wait to hear what happened

Princess Carly