Sex Question?

I'd suggest you explore why this is a "chore" for you, like vaccuming the house every 2 weeks. Examine specifically why you don't like it...does he smell bad? Ask him to shower first. Is he too hairy? Ask him to shave once in a while. Does your mouth get tired? There are oral sex exercises that will strengthen your muscles and jaw to make it easier. Does it seem unnatural? Oral sex has been going on since the beginning of time, nothing unnatural about it. Is he unappreciative? Ask him to compliment you more and let you know how good it feels. This should be fun, not a bad thing.

It is something you have to grow to like. If that is what he likes I think you should do it for him. Putting a time/number on it makes it weird. Eventually he will find someone else to give him a BJ the other 27 days of the month. Practice makes perfect and you will eventually get use to it if you do it more than 3 times a month. If you do something 7 consecutive days it becomes a habit...Try it...

Ok, this is a good question. For the most part the women on here stood up for their men. There are alot of young kids on here that are basing their answers off of what they THINK they might do or what they have already done & their relationship has not worked out the way the thought it would. Relationships are based off of common ground & love & happiness & sexually attraction...with that being said, I don't there should be a # on how many times you give it to him, I think if he wants it then he should have it but I DO NOT think he should get it bc he thinks that it's the way it should be. You both should have a mutual understanding & not a # on how many times sexual things will be done throughout the month. I think it's something that should just happen

Three a month is very acceptable, and does he eat you three times a month. I like eating it every time we make love. As a matter of fact, i'd reather eat her than for her to give me a bj.

If you don't like giving him oral pleasure and he knows it, I don't see why you should "make a deal" to do something you clearly do not like. From his point of view, he obviously likes to be on the receiving end. But, I don't quite see how he could really enjoy receiving while knowing you see it as an "obligation".

Personally, I love doing this for my partner. I see it as giving him the most intimate kiss possible. But if a person truly does not like doing this for their partner, I don't think they should have to do so.

I have always enjoyed watching his face and hearing his noises when I do that. I could never put a number on the times I do it per month or per week granted there are times when I just am not in the mood but he wants it and I willing give because I know I will receive as good as I give. Not always in a sexual way too.

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I prefer to please my husband in any way that seems fun at the time. But, if you don't like it, don't do it. It isn't a reasonable request if you do not like it. the only thing that it will do is leave a bad taste in your mouth for BJ's (literally too).

So let me see if I get this right. Your boyfriend is demanding that you give him sexual pleasure (the ********) at least three times a month, even though he KNOWS that you don't like it?

Well what sacrifice is he making in return? After all what he's saying is that he is "entitled" to sexual pleasure when it does nothing for you, so what is he giving up, or giving you in return?

Never let a relationship get too unbalanced (all his way), or you will come to resent it.

Wow..3 times a month? Doe that mean he can only eat you up 3 times a month too? I ALWAYS have COCK in my mouth!! Can't get enough of it..it's like so yummy. Is your man not very hygiene down there or what?? What makes you not like it??

How can a woman not like to suck a man nice hard cock?? I'm sorry but for amazed....I'm always satisfying my husband.I feel bad for the man that don't get it ..my heart goes out to you guys!!

You do what you do, when your loving each other. You don't think, you love. Whatever feels right at the time, you don't put limits on lovemaking and what you do to please one another. Your in your zone, you do what feels good. I didn't really care for them myself but now I do it because it pleases him and I know if the shoe were on the other foot , he would do the same for me. That's what love is, pleasing one another.