I cant stop missing my ex,?

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We dated 13 years Time slowed down when our eyes connected for the first time. I can never love any thing as much as her. 
Life got in the way and we grew apart slowly until ultimately we realized we both needed more from a relationship.  It has been two years we talk everyday and are still close friends.. she has a man and I have dated two girls since and I am in a relationship still.  I love the girl I am with but not in love and no were near the love I had for my ex.  Every time I think every thing is good and I feeel content with were me and the ex are BAMM. I fall apart and miss her like insane. I know she feels really sad as well and she has started drinking. I just don't know. Its not as easy as oh well then,just get back together.

Hicktown · Accepted Answer

If it is at all possible for you and your ex to be together and make it work... then by all means you should both find a way.  But if you can't... then you just have to "move on". Yeah... easier said than done. I married the man that I was in love with for over 20 years. The man I had my first kiss with when I was a kid. He was my life and we were so in love... but something happened that would keep us apart forever. Nothing can reunite us. But that doesn't change his feelings for me or mine for him. I tried everything to "move on" TIME (5 years), DISTANCE (I ran 300 miles away), NEW RELATIONSHIP (yeah, I met someone new) But nothing stops the longing and the love. Nothing ever will. I hope that your situation can be fixed... don't let anything get in the way of true love if you can help it. I couldn't help it. If it's true love, it doesn't get easier with time.

willie · Answer

You didn't want a husband. You wanted something to control and own. You tried to change him, you tried to control him. You never loved him, you just thought you were getting a new toy. You're still doing the same thing - wanting for yourself, not for him.

keishe83 · Answer

Since you two aren't married with kids with your current beaus then you should break it off. Its not fair to keep your current girl hanging on when your not in love with her. Stop trying to have your cake and eat it too.

abcd_gal · Answer

So what do u want to know 
what to do in this situation ?
i think u shuld go back to her and ask her out 
if u r not happy and she is not happy 
why the hell u r punishing urselves ?
give it a chance 
go back to her

goddess queen · Answer

i think you shouldnt be in a relationship you should date ppl though but keep it casual because your not over her and sad to say if you keep in contact with her liike your doing you'll never get over her

Anonymous · Answer

I know what you meen, if i had a gun i wouldent miss her eather.

nobody_000 · Answer

been there done that . 
piece of advise. - IF U CANT LOVE THE ONE U WANT..... LOVE THE ONE THAT YOU ARE WITH....

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