My husband's ex-wife has several pictures of him, her ex-in-laws on her myspace page. Is this normal?

IGNORE HER.. She obviously is a very bitter person . You have the man she supposedly wants ... She needs to grow up , especially where the kids are concerned ... You can still be a good stepmom & mom .. her input at this point is irrelevant . Someday your step children will grow up ... They will see the truth about their mom , if she doesn't get it together. She's making a fool of herself and the kids will see it .

As long as you know your husband Loves You, and your family doesn't get put on the back burner your fine. My husbands ex (they never married but they had a girl together) Totally hated me because I wouldn't let her control him! That's ridicules she can't make him putt his first born children over his younger children! she sound jealous and petty! You guys are a family and whether the boys are with you or not your still a family. Just be nice to her ignore her petty attempts to cause you drama, get your own family pics and hang them all over your house to surround yourself with the love you have. Remember she's the past your the future, she'll get over it eventually! Hang in there ex's can be a pain that's why they're ex's LOL

From the awnsers people are giving you i think some of them are wrong because they have no clue what you are going through. They havent been in the same boat as you. My advice to you is to try not let the pictures bother you she has done this for the reason that she cant forget about him she is still in love with him. But you should remember she has a kid with him so she will allways be in the picture!! And what you did to buy a present to give to her for mothers day is not a good step right there it seems as though you are trying to shove it in her face that your with her ex. Try not involving yourself around her life. I give this advise to you because its little things like the present thing that would piss me off. I allways remember the saying " treat others the way you want to be treated" Good luck hun. ;)

Discuss the situation with your husband and ask him what he feels would be best for the kids. The MySpace page is the least of your problems in the face of such hostility. You and your husband need to talk about it and come up with a strategy of dealing with it - together.

Stay off of her myspace page. That's how you deal with it.

She might be an angry, petty pain in the butt, and tossing out the present was pretty mean to her son since it was supposed to be "from" him even though you bought it -- however it's pretty creepy that you are online checking up on her.

Ignore her. Your other option is to keep stewing over her behaviour and ruin your health with all of the stress. Is she really worth it?

She is obviously not dealing with a full deck. She's hurt and bitter and has not worked through the pain of her divorce. If I were you, I would stay out of it completely. Eventually, people in her life (family and friends) are going to start telling her that her behavior -- particularly with the Myspace pictures -- is not healthy and encourage her to get into counseling. Sad.

No matter how hard it is ig nore her. Really she is trying to get a rise out of you and it sounds like she is starting to get there.

You be the mature and decent one. It will be hard, but in the end you will look the better person and people will understand why your husband left her and chose you.

Some times people just can't let the past go. It's one thing to have the in-laws. But it's not cool to have the ex on there. I use to buy gifts for my step-son to give his mom but I don't any more.Keep your head up and don't let that woman get under you skin.

You know I saw pictures of my ex-sister in law that she had posted on her facebook and I saw pictures there of my parents and my brother, its not ok.

She is seeking some attention, sounds like she needs some attention from your husband to make you even more jealous....Ignore it laugh when its mentioned and snicker how foolish she looks about doing it

Just laugh it off

Approach the husband, but it real difficult to control another person's preferences and choices. Your husband is a free will human being. Let him know that you don't like what you saw and see if he comply with your wishes. These ex families with children are very difficult to control.