Yahoo Answers is shutting down on May 4th, 2021 (Eastern Time) and beginning April 20th, 2021 (Eastern Time) the Yahoo Answers website will be in read-only mode. There will be no changes to other Yahoo properties or services, or your Yahoo account. You can find more information about the Yahoo Answers shutdown and how to download your data on this help page.

Female Sex Drives?

okay, so my view on girl's and their sex drives is kind of distorted.

my ex was really religious so we didn't "engage" very often, and when we did it was only like intense make out.

i'm abstaining and like girls who have morals and respect my boundaries etc.

but i have always wanted a girl that would want to explore and kick in her sex drive. but i don't know how the female mindset works.

i know from time to time i have urges to just go crazy on my girlfriend, just randomly, nothing that was provoked.

what does the female mindset entail when it comes to a sex drive?

thanks a alot.

18 Answers

Relevance
  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    MY sex drive is usually off...sad I know...but try explaining that to your boyfriend and you yourself have no idea whats going on with your body. I can't get in the mood sometimes because of the little things like stress or a comment someone made that bugged the crap out of me. I come home to my boyfriend and if he is rude or says the wrong thing I just get mad. But the funny thing is when I miss him thats when my sex drive really kicks in. Sometimes foods change my mood, or freaking the weather. But if he looks at me or kisses me just right, its on like donkey kong...lol..jk

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I'm female my religion is Chirstian-Baptist I think about sex 85% of the time everyday I also watch porno's too I know it's wrong I shouldn't be doing that but I do.I haven't had sex yet but if I was now I could have a good amount sex at any random time of the day every day or every few days.I like to be in control when I am I know I'll be like a animal (not in a crazy way).

    I dont like to give oral sex but I will masterbate a guy I love working with my hands.Of course when I have sex I'll be on birth control, I'll make sure he doesn't have a STD.I wont sleep with a bunch of guys in one time frame I 'll want to have sex every now and then.I would have to say I think from a male's perspective (not saying all men think like this) "ok we ****** thank you very much bye!" I just don't care about the relationship part at all that's how I am. <---(not trying to brag)

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    It's very individual.

    I am like a maniac... not kinky just like it ALOT.

    My husband and I are like the opposite. He always says Im like a guy. Everyday. I would never turn him down.

    But I know some girls need to have build up and some think of it as a chore. I think being able to be random and "go at it" will take having a steady relationship with a girl who shares that type of passion.

  • 1 decade ago

    find some passion! if you stop worrying about morals, respect and boundaries and just let yourself go you'll find it has a contagious effect on your lady friend. The last thing you want is her worrying about if you'll still respect her in the morning in the middle of a make out session. Go ahead and get crazy at a random time your girlfriend would love it.

  • How do you think about the answers? You can sign in to vote the answer.
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Mate, let me tell you one thing - if you proove to them you're going to be the best father / carer and provider - they'll want you there and then, subconsiously. You can imply this indirectly in everything you say do, and act. That's what female sex drive is. They want a protector - someone to take care of them and most of all understand them. Looks don't matter as much - initially yes, but not over time. So yea do that, but be a joky with lots of sexual innuendo and ask them personal questions that gets them intrigued and wanting you more.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    people say that I'm strange because I usually hae sex when Im bored, or if there is a hot guy, bed, and proof that he is good...

    but I have rules:

    *condom at all times, I DON'T FREAKING CARE IF HE HAS NO STD'S OR ANYTHING I still think semmen is gross as hell!

    *lights off

    *bra on

    *never ever can do orals for me, EVER!

    *if I do orals for him there has to be a flavored condom and no body hair

    *i never, ever masturbate infront of him (or ever at all)

    but other than that I'm normal :P

    I know I'm fussy, but its either that or nothing, and I have no big interest in sex so it doesnt matter much!

  • 1 decade ago

    A guy can do something easy to turn me on but that doesnt mean ill have sex with him. Jus like u can turn me on ill go right off. Every woman is different. Sometimes it takes alot for some women so idn jus experiment.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I hate that because Im quiet, look conservative, guys think im not a sexual person. I happen to love sex probaly more then most girls. I dont sleep around, but when im sleeping with someone, i want sex and I want it alot. I like trying new things...all girls are different though..

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    hey !!! guess what... im religeous .. and i think i know what you are talking about .. it seems al you could do is have a hard makeout ... well my friend it is exactly that which is driving you nuts ..the fact that there was a boundary .. made you want to break it even more... i think if you ended up marrying that girl sex would be the ultimte reward... and if you have sex constantly .. well.. the feeling becomes numb afer a while

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Every women is different. Some like to be in control some like to be controlled and feel the man is superior...Experiment and you'll find what pleases her and what displeases her... best thing is to talk about it I know it'll be a weird conversation but if you're curious :D

Still have questions? Get your answers by asking now.