Ex's in dream...what can it mean ??

Your dream suggests a continued attraction - either by you to your ex, or that you sense that in him. It also suggests that your relative groups - yours and his families and friends - may have been a dividing force in the past.

The setting of a wedding sets a particular stage for the tone of such a dream - the obvious. Of course it is the wedding of another - but those things bring the emotions of affection up near the surface quite easily and that's a terrific stage for this kind of dream.

You are with your own, and he with his - yet he has eyes mainly for you. This divide between two groups may be very important in understanding what is going on here. Could each of your families and closer friends have been an interfering factor between the two of you before?

Consider to whether he has sent such signals since becoming an 'ex' or not, you see that - or possibly desire that - from him. Something seems unresolved in this way, regarding affections.

In shying away as you describe you are not necessarily rejecting him - just avoiding obvious contact. That avoidance could be for many reasons - discomfort, wishing not to appear to 'rebound' back to him in front of others - or possibly just out of a wish to not be connected to him. It somehow appears connected to your own family and friends - you may be avoiding responding in front of them.

Your action in turning away is not one of outright rejection and you describe no emotions of that sort. In fact, the business of the wedding proceeds and you are apparently comfortably focused on that for now - until finding yourself on a balcony. A balcony is of course a place of oversight - all can be surveyed - but those doing the surveying there are not likely so noticed by others below. It is a place of privacy - and note that neither his friends and family or yours is in that place by what you have written.

This solitude on the balcony gives you some semblance of control and awareness, and privacy - except that now you are joined suddenly and approached in what sounds like a familiar and affectionate way. The emotions of the wedding now having been well exercised and as things wrap up, it is the natural time for him to act on similar emotions and approach you - and no others are there to interfere or cast judgment. It is now between the two of you. The message is: 'there is still interest here', or at least that there may be some unresolved thought of that.

Where that interest is coming from is something you will have to determine - I cannot know the context of that situation well enough to know, nor could I really know your heart and mind. It may be mutual - he may be giving fresh signals of some sort in subtle ways that are encouraging your thoughts. And, you may still be receptive to the idea of reconsidering some things - it is notable that you do not mention any negatives in your former relationship with him, regardless of the 'breakup' that must have occurred. Again, what is notable is the apparent role of family and friends - what happens when they are witnesses, and what happens when they are not - these differ profoundly and strongly suggest that they were somehow a divisive force in the past.

Your awakening is not necessarily an escape, but could be - this is again something you will need to consider. His sudden approach in this way may be more than you want - you may have been overlooking things from that balcony precisely to avoid him. But somehow that seems doubtful - it is more as if you wish for privacy there - to provide an opportunity for what did happen.

And somehow you seem a bit startled that it did - in awakening so. That too could be a clue - you may wish this thing but have doubts about dealing with your own family and friends, or perhaps that he would really do it. It could also be that such a thing simply deserves more thought before you'd allow yourself to be led back into a relationship with him.

Again, all of these things are just observations - you would have to sort out the realities of your situation to decide how they may fit and help you understand the dream and any real message here. But it does sound as if there is some unresolved affection still remaining - and you may have to both consider that together in the absence of both families - think back to the privacy of that balcony and the separation between you as you are each with your 'own' groups.

Perhaps the two of you need to find a 'neutral' balcony some where to spend an hour or two reflecting and considering these things without the influence or eyes of others - if the thing is comfortable and appealing to you. This is yours to decide in your own knowledge of heart and mind - and his of course, should you pursue it.

All the best to you for sorting this out and for happiness.

Well my ex and I have been broken up for 1 1/2 and I still dream about him sometimes. It was not like a dream where we got back together or anything like that. He was just there in my dream as like any random person. I know when we first seperated I dreamed about him alot because I still wanted him so if you still want him it could be a possibilty that is why you are dreaming about him. Once I let him go I stopped dreaming about him. Hope this helps!

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your still in love with him, it maybe hard to addmit to yourself but you must let go, it will be easier as time goes by.