my boy toy wants to add another girl to out encounters?

sounds like you suffer from low self esteem if your thinking of doing something you don't want to just to please some guy you don't really want...

Maybe you should be smart and dump him... maybe you should consider being alone for a while, and after you've realized that you can survive by yourself you can again look at a relationship with someone else.

Until you can be happy with who you are and realize you have self worth, your doomed to be used by people that will prey on your lack of self confidence and end up doing god knows what just because they ask.

He is your toy boy and he may feel the same... and what that means is that it's an object (toy) of fun. And you shouldn't involve those feelings in this relationship because you are not committed to each other because if you feel that way about him it means that you feel more deeper for him and that he means more than a boy toy to you but does he really wants that feelings if you want to know then why don't you ask him to have threesome with you and some other guy that you met and see what his reaction will be then work it out from that. And about having threesome with another girl and him.. you'll have to follow you initiative whether you feel comfortable about it or not, that is up to you but as you said that it wouldn't be your first time then that wouldn't be a problem unless your letting your jealousy get the better of you.

Good luck xxxxx

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Then make him jealous to and get him to love you as you and make him want you rather than wanting you just for sex.. cos if only sex you showing and giving him that's only thing he will see and want.

You call him your boy toy and you think HE'S using YOU? That's different.

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You said: " i think i would want to have a 3some when i'm in a committed relationship because then i know the other girl is only there for that particular time and i wouldn't have to worry about getting ditched for the other girl"

It doesn't matter either way what she's there for. If he develops an interest in her, big deal! It means you two weren't meant to have a serious relationship. Just do it.

I'd say go for it! What do you have to lose? If your not in a commited relationship then there aren't all of those extra feelings, it's just fun! I think you would suprise him if you really followed thru with it and brought a girl there with you! haha! No- even better... Bring another guy.. and be like "I thought you wanted a 3some" haha ... jk

Anyways . . . . Threesomes are fun, just follow your heart, it will help you decide.

My son has never really had any interest in my stepdaughter’s toys. Not even a little bit. They have never fought over toys. Well the one toy they did fight over was a ride on horse so I wouldn’t say it was for a boy or a girl but neutral. But my 2 yr old is ALL boy and goes straight for the football, basketball or the Tonka trucks in the house. I wouldn’t say I’d object to any sort of doll if he had one but at this point, he shows no interest. And I’m sure as heck not spending money if I don’t need to. LOL.

Do it now, when u arent committed. Not a good thing to do when u are committed b/c it can really put strains on your relationship. A guy that really cares about you only has sex with you and doesnt want to touch or be touched by anyone else, have fun your young and not tied to anyone.

well, if you want more from him then just a **** buddy situation i would highly suggest against doing a 3 some. That's the number one way to end any relationship. You should be enough for your shared bed, when he has to bring in a second that's when you know you are not enough and he is just using you.

Do it b/c you want to, NOT b/c he wants you to. Let's keep this in mind: He isn't your man, he probably wants to fufill his fantasy, but once again: Do you want a 3some? I personally like to add a 3rd every once in awhile, but it's with MY man, you know? That's what it comes down to, if YOU want it, heck yeah, girl, go have fun! But make sure that you want it as well, k?

Shouldn't it be easier if you're not commited? You must want that commitment from him...Stall, I don't know how, but if you let him 'use' you once, that's what you'll become, a door mat. If you really don't care about him, then by all means find a hot chick and be safe, and I'm jealous, lol.

It sounds like you are not in a committed relationship. If ever there was a time to explore and try this it would be now.