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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsMarriage & Divorce · 1 decade ago

i am totally confused .I am 22 yr old man fall in love with 16 yr old girl.i thought i shld marry her after 5?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Don't be confused! its normal! I mean now days most people will tell you thats gross or your crazy, pathetic what ever they want, and thats only because they are caught up in "todays" society! Back in the days people were getting married around the age of 12-14. I am 18 and my Fiance is 22, we dated for 4 months then got engaged, you just know what their the one!!!. Its a little diffrent, but yet the same. You can't help fall in love. So dont listen to "those" people that tell you other wise. Usually they are the ones that wish the had what you have! My sister was 14 when she met her husband, she is 21 hes 26 and they have been together 7 years and married 4 of those 7. So it is possible. Just do what you want and what you feel is in your heart! Dont let other people ruin your life. Life is to short to have people live it for you!

    GOOD LUCK!

  • 1 decade ago

    You should grow up and find someone your own age and not just your mental equal. Seriously how many things can you have in common with a child? How on earth does a 22 year old start dating a 16 year old girl? Anyways most of this relationships end horribly because the young girl was cheated of normal youth like activities and she will eventually want those experiences. Be a real man let her go. Especially as if I were her parents you'd be in jail.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    think about the reasons why you love her. soetime it is confusin, because a girl so much younger than you might like you alot because you are older. if you were the same age as her, she may not want anything to do with you. it is called abuse of power. you hold power over herbecause she feels important since a 22 year old man is in love with her. she probably doesn't really love you and you probably need to see if you can find a girl your own age that will not be swayed by your power over her.

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    1 decade ago

    Marry her after 5 what? 5pm? 5 yrs? 5 dates? 5 times of having sex?

    She's a kid...she shouldn't even be thinking of marriage or settling down until she's AT LEAST your age, if not older.

    Date women your own age and leave the children alone.

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  • 1 decade ago

    By this question I assume that you are very immature.. that's why you fall in love with 16 yr. old. It's against the law for you to be intimate with her. You will go to jail, but if that's what you want.. go for it... and join the likes of your kind there.

  • 1 decade ago

    Ok, well I don't really agree with a 22yr old being with a 16yr old. Just my opinion, sorry!

    Wait to get married. Don't get married until she is at least 21. This way she can growup and mature as a women!

  • 1 decade ago

    confused?

    No-- i think u mean I'm a pervert and I'm in love with a 16 year old..

    Seriously!! You are a young man and shouldn't be pursuing a 16 year old GIRL..

    Get a life loser

  • 1 decade ago

    You know, you know, you know that she is too young for you.

    That is why you are trying to see if you can get anybody to say OK good deal.

    You heard him, she is jail bait and if you mess with that young lady you will be jail bait too. a whole lot of guys on the down low waiting for guys like you..........

  • 1 decade ago

    I think you should just leave her alone cause she's to young for you or at least wait for her to be 18th years old to be with her cause it ccan cause u more problems then what u need

  • 1 decade ago

    dude come on... she's not matured yet at all... you need to be careful before you get caught up in some pedophiliac situations. you aren't in love with her... my advice would be to get yourself out of that situation as quickly as possible

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