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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsMarriage & Divorce · 1 decade ago

is oral sex cheating?

i have talked to many men and women, single and married...and they told me, not all but i can say 45% of them, that oral sex is not sex because there is no intercourse. in those 45%, not all not most but some of the married ones, men and women, said that they had oral sex with other people then their spouses. but before i asked them about the oral sex, i had ask them if they ever cheated on thier spouses they said no! they said that it's not cheating since there is no intercourse...i think that's BS, cheaitng is cheating...but i want other opinions...so do you think that if you are in a committed relationship, marriage included, and you or signifiant other had oral sex with someone esle, would you think that's cheating?

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i know it's cheating but i wanted your opinion...the people i talked to, their ages were from 26 to 55

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    Yes, oral sex is cheating..it is still sex only the person is using his/her mouth to pleasure someone. That is like asking is it raining when you see water falling from the sky and hitting your car or the ground..it sure isn't urine falling from the sky1

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    YES! That's considered cheating, ESPECIALLY that he's married. I didn't know Mr. Clinton could affect people that much! If you have a relationship online with someone you can't even kiss, it's considered cheating. Some even consider having sexual fantasies about someone who isn't your significant other cheating. And needless to say, oral sex IS cheating. It's probably even worse than normal sex.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I think there are different types of sex. I hate it when people say that oral sex isn't sex. I mean come on, oral sex has the word sex in it!

    Yes, if some one is married and had oral sex with some one other then there spouse. They cheated.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Oral sex while your in a committed relationship is definitely cheating.

  • 1 decade ago

    Yes, I believe that oral sex with someone other than your spouse is cheating. Even though there is no actual intercourse involved sexual pleasures are obtained. Thus it would be considered cheating.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    It is absolutely cheating. I think cheating can even happen without oral sex or intercourse. You can develop an emotional relationship with someone too, and that could be considered cheating as well.

  • 1 decade ago

    hell yeah, i think it is very much so cheating, just the fact that he is with another woman is cheating, and to top it off if he has oral sex, it's still sex so therefore it is still cheating.Cheating consists of a man and a woman having relations whether it's sexual or flirting, or dating etc, it's still cheating, once there's feelings involved with one another, then it is still cheating, so those 45% that said it's not, obviously don't want to be considered a cheater, or feel guilty that they have cheated so therefore says that load of bull, that it's not cheating, but it is.

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    5 years ago

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    definitely!! Both in the world's eyes and in God's. As any form of sex even lusting after another person in your mind, is considered adultery and cheating. As it means your heart isn't truly with the person you pledged to love. Whether married to that person or not. You said you love the one you call your spouse , boyfriend girl or significant other. So why would you even want anyone else. To me that tells me you aren't happy with your love. If you truly know what real love in, then you'd never need to roam. My answer reflect anyone in love with someone. Not you personally . Even though I used you ( the word ) to direct this answer to. Plus , Do you really want to chance of getting a STD, to have the suffer with, Both physically and emotionally Knowing that from that point on you'd always carry some residual amounts of it. Ex herpes , Plus you would pass it to the one you say you love. Then they would know you cheated and possibly lied about it. You'd totally lose any trust the had towards you.

  • 1 decade ago

    yes definetly is chesting... whether oral, or not its cheating anything in a sexual manner to another person while already being commited to someone or married is cheating.... whther its intercourse or oral sex its still sex and sex any kind of sex is cheating

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