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What should I do with her?

My cousin is 14 and 3 weeks ago called to tell me she is pregnant...[she lies a lot so I dont believe her] I am also 14 and I told her people doubt our next generation because it is people like her having kids when they are just a kid themselves. She called me a 'sell-out' and told me to stop acting white because I am black. I told her she is insulting the black community by saying acting black is barely finishing middle school and already having kids. She got mad and called me every name but a child of God and she has been real disrespectful to me. She calls my phone and I reject her calls because I dont have time for her immaturaty then she leaves horrible messages threatening to beat me up and things like that...I'm not scared of her but should I still allow her to be apart of my life? Should I forgive her? She treats me really bad and all I do is help her. I am sick of helping her if I'm going to be disrespected.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    I think that you should just let her know that you don't have to take any of this from you and that you don't have to put up with this. Let her know that you are trying help her and that you only want the best for her. Then I think that you should pray and ask God to help you out in this situation and all you have to do is trust and believe and he will do it.

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