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I feel bad...but...(read more)?

Ok, today was field day for the jr high and my ex was being really annoying and one thing that he did was slap my butt (really hard-ly) and so the 1st time I just rolled my eyes but then after the 3rd time I turn around and give him the evil eye and he's like "YOU DON'T LIKE IT DO YA? WHATCHA GONNA DO? HUH? HUH? WHATCHA GONNA DO?" and so I hit him in the mouth to get him to shut up. (I didn't mean it I was just really mad) So then he slaps me across the face (I still have a mark...about 3 hrs later) Then he walks away and tells his friends that I gave him a fat lip. (I didn't!) And so people come over calling me a ***** and saying they're gonna slit my throat because I hurt him.

I know I was in the wrong...but what should I have done? He's so mad at me now, and all his friends believe him and are mad at me so I don't want anything to happen but something might....what do I do?

Update:

My face will be okay...but that's not what i'm worried about right now! haha.

thanks for asking

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  • 1 decade ago
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    that's considered sexual harassment and if he is leaving bruises or any other kind of vissable wound then it is sexual abuse.....my sister used to abuse me....mostly physically....she has been slapping my butt really hard for a long time, just a few days ago my dad told her that since she'd be 18 soon if she didn't stop doing it to me then he'd call the police.....tell him that and maybe he'll stop, if not follow through. you shouldn't have to put up with that kind of abuse. make sure you involve your parents in everything though.....they can be a huge help. as for the verbal abuse, whenever he says something mean to you just say "thank you. jesus loves you!" just don't let him know that it would hurt you. he's prolly still mad or hurt from your brake-up and if you are handling it better then him and he sees that, he's gonna be jealous and feel insecure, therefore he is going to do everything with in his power to try to make you as miserable as he can. i know it sounds pathetic, it is.....thats how jr. high relationships go.....lol....I've never had a bf but I've watched plenty of my friends go through this pattern every day....here, in high school! kids are funny.....haha....and i'm talking to myself here! ne way, if you need any more help, feel free to send me a message! Good luck!

    your reaction can be best explained as self defense....i think you did the right thing....

    Source(s): lotza lotza experience!
  • 1 decade ago

    He had no rite to hit you. Hitting him was not a good idea either. Don't worry about the other guys. Tell an adult at your school what is going on. It may not be the "coolest" or "most popular" thing to do, but it is the best thing. Do it now before it gets any worse.

  • 1 decade ago

    if he slapped your butt i think u did the right thing! some one did that to me and my brother said it was considered sexual harrasment! im really sorry that happened! how is ur face?

  • 1 decade ago

    Well he shoudl not have hit you, your a girl. but yes your right jsut because your a girl does not mean its ok to hit him either.

    You shoudl apologize to him, and tell him you didnt like it when he did that. he was probably doing it to get your attention.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    no offence girls arn t supposd to da that and also u must have badd friends tell the tru storyy what he did to u so you did that backa dn tell ppl that he slapped a girls tell ppl he was hurting make him feel how u felt

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    i need clarification here

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