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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 decade ago

confused aft telling him help me!?

i insanely told my best guy friend that i like him but he seemed to be really neutral about it because i usually thought guys will either lure towards it if he likes u and avoids you if he doenst but he is still good friends with me. we can still talk and laugh and joke with each other as per normal though at certain occasions he will ask questions bout my liking. we're good friends for a long time. was once very very close as well. i need to hear a NO(impossible) from him to move on but i cant seem to get it out. i aint getting a YES (possible)from him as well. I doubt he likes me, right?? why do u think he keep asking? there is no way he'll like me right?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Well.... heh! Wouldn't it be nice if people always told us exactly how they felt about us, right? If no one ever cheated... if when your better half had doubts they'd tell you in details the second it happens...

    It's not a perfect world, darling, and that's even what makes it more fun, and helps the earth spin - the mystery. I'm sure you've had guys you haven't been perfectly upfront with in yoru life, so how's this any different on his behalf?

    Let him make up his mind, don't.... pressure him... you'll create that uncomfortable state you're tryin' to avoid, see. Pretend you never even told him this. Instead, find a time when it's just the two of you, talk on some personal subjects, even... try to kiss him, I don't see why not. You need to read between the lines here to find out what's holding him back. If he really liked you and had no doubts, he'd tell you when you told him, maybe. He's either shy, or has something else on his mind. And I'm sure if you follow yoru instincts, you'll get all yoru questions answered, just not in plain English :)

  • 1 decade ago

    Hmm this is a tough question, but, i think that he might be confused too, that's why he's asking questions because he's not sure about what he feels and is trying to think, give it some time. If he doesn't tell you after like ages and ages then i would either move on or get another good friend to ask him about it. Hope it turns out for the best.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    The guys obviously thinking things through since he loves you as a friend but is unsure of how things would go through once you actually go out. There is a possibility that he has feelings for you so just hold on for a bit, Its really hard dating a best friend since it may break relationships. Sounds to me hes considering a relationship, it may take time so for know just stay friends and see if something devolops. Good Luck you have my support.

  • 1 decade ago

    He's just trying to be cool about it because you have been friends for so long and doesn't want to ruin it. I would say he is attracted to you since he keeps asking so the next time he asks you about liking him just say to him "Yes I really do like you so are you going to kiss me now or just keep me hanging?!" and see how he reacts. Most likely he will plant one really awesome kiss on you once he has the green light. Good luck and hope it works out.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    well he might start liking you because he keeps asking but he is confused and just wants to stay friends because he is probably worried that if you guys were to start likeing eachother and it doesnt work out it will kill the friend ship. You guys sound much better as friends then actually dating i would just move on and maybe tell him you dont like him anymore next time he asks about it.

  • 1 decade ago

    usually when a guy and a girl are best friends they like each other because the love from the friendship grows into something more

  • lori c
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    good grief, stop putting words into his mouth. You don't need to hear anything from him whether or not to move on. You just need to move and quit all the senseless talking. You're talking yourself into a state of confusion. How about talking to him instead of yourself and hear what he has to say.

  • 1 decade ago

    Why dont you ask him about it? It seems like you guys are close enough to be able to ask him that. Maybe he's just not sure what to do about it because he probably had no clue that you liked him.

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    Hahaha you sound really curious about it but to be honest if you think he does like you back just put your hand on your chest and feel your heartbeat And look I know it's really weird and filmy but try it If you believe he does that might be real and yes if you think since you told him he became more closer to you then he might be trying shy or may be he is waiting for a right time

  • 1 decade ago

    The only thing I can tell you is ask him again talk to him about how you feel and tell him you want an honest answer

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