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Did I do something wrong?
Lets say I am 16 and my boyfriend is almost 16. I was recently invited to a party by jonathan(hes gay) I decided I was going but I did not invite my boyfriend. I left my car at work and rode to Jons with Nathan(he likes me)there was alchohol at the party and I drank a little even though I said I wasnt going to. Nathan got drunk so I had no ride home. I stayed the night but I slept downstairs and everyone else slept upstairs. I told my boyfriend I didnt invite him because it wasnt my party to invite him to and he didnt want to go because he doesnt like Nathan. He is mad at me and I dont think I did anything wrong. Whats your opinion?
yes~he said he was bothered by the fact that i was going
i never asked if he could attend the party.
now i told him maybe we should take a break and he said okay.
4 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Honesty and trust are one of the core tenants in a relationship. When one has such an emotional reaction to the situation as described, it would be reasonable to think he has felt like you violated his trust on some level.
Your reaction to this should be an indication of your desire to keep the relationship. If it means something to you, it really doesnt matter as much whether you were right or wrong , but rather how your partner took it, and what you can do in the future to better maintain his faith and trust in you.
- «♥MUSiC=LOVE♥»Lv 41 decade ago
Well he does have a reason why to be mad, sort of =/ .... What you should've done is at least told him you were going to this kid's party. And you should've called him and told him what happened and that you were sleeping over the kid's house. But if you guys have a good relationship going, then there should be no reason why he shouldn't trust you, except for the fact that you didn't tell him about attending the party.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
yes first you didnt invite your boyfriend, then went to the party with some one your boyfriend doesnt like, then you drank alocohol while you said you werent. so 3 things. hmmm your really a good girlfriend .....