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how can you tell the difference between a guy liking you as a friend and a guy liking you as more?

I have a really good guy friend who I like as more then a friend. There are times that I think he might like me back because we flirt a lot. But I don't want to ruin our friendship by telling him I like him and then not have him like me back. So how do you tell the difference between a guy liking you as a friend and a guy liking you as more then a friend?

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  • Yeh Y
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Signs he likes you as more: Tries to get to know more about you, smiles at you whenever he talks to you, likes to spend more time with you than other girls, tries to keep the conversation going between you two.

    Also, if you ask him who he likes and he likes you, he will either say you, or not give a definite answer, or might become a bit shy or a bit stunned by the question, if he is shyer.

    ^This is easy way to tell, and easily can be asked without ruining the friendship.

    Source(s): I'm a guy.
  • 1 decade ago

    Hey--u already understand the difference----see friendship never depends on what is the sex of the friend.Can any girl be more than a friend for u??NO!

    Just tell him what u feel--if he says he doesn't like u--then just tell him what made u think like that.

    As simple as that---and a secret learn from me today---"There can not be more than friendship between a guy and a girl"---It has to be emotional attachment if it is more than just friendship.

    When you tell frankly what u feel--then this more than friendship gets a name and recognition otherwise it stays as a misery most of the time---but one thing is for sure---it is not a friendship.

  • 1 decade ago

    It all depends on the guy. Before I started dating my current girlfriend I used to have a few close female friends. Some of them thought I liked them, while some didn't.

    In my opinion the best tell-tale sign is when you hang out one on one. If you haven't done so already, try to meet somewhere very casual to start (cafe, or maybe a non-romantic movie), then slowly make the meetings more and more personal. If he likes you he'll keep hanging out with you. If not then you'll know it.

  • 1 decade ago

    Lol, I had the same problem! I still whished I could tell if he liked me more than a friend and is sucks cause u can't tell cause you've been friends with that person for so long. Just tell him how you feel, that's what I didn't and me and my friendship is going to our 4th year!

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  • 1 decade ago

    His look on his face when he looks at you and the way he he communicates with, but note this sometimes he might like you and try to hide just by acting like he isn't interseted

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    You just know by simply asking him that you like him more than a friend! Just try im sure he likes you more as a friend too!

  • 1 decade ago

    Like you, as in hook-up?

    Or like you, as a girlfriend?

    If things have moved beyond flirting, in any way, he likes u.

    :)

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    You should just ask him. At least that way you would know and you can take it from there.

  • 1 decade ago

    The amount of money and the types of gifts he gives you.

  • 1 decade ago

    You have to ask;) that's the only way I know of.

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