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sick asked in Pregnancy & ParentingPregnancy · 1 decade ago

pregnant and both our sex drives disappeared after 20 week ultrasound?!?!?

we used to have sex at least 3 times a week. iam going on 23 weeks now and we only had sex twice since then?! the baby was awake and moving alot when we saw him and we loved it but i think it psycologically effected us. my b/f says he doesnt want to because its just weird with the baby but he also said that this didnt happen before with his previous marriage/baby i dont know whats happening he's very thrilled we are having a baby and so am i but i also lost my sex drive. he also said he would never leave me but he also has this feeling that he is trapped but he says he doesnt know how to explain it because at the same time he is so thrilled, i know he's happy because he does all of the nesting thing, buying stuff, getting the air vents cleaned and what not (i dont do any yet) i think i lost mine because i saw the baby be so active i dont know. please tell me someone else has had this happen to them?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    Well, I sort of feel like you do. It's like I'll want to, and even have dreams about it, but then when the time comes, I'm thinking about the baby and nervous about causing contractions and stuff. He doesn't want to "squish" the baby, so we're both not 100% into it. I'm sure this will pass.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Well it's normal to not have a sex drive while pregnant. It really is different with everyone. Who knows if after you will regain it back. It could be months, even years. I was in your situation with a no sex drive and it's not pleasant. I tried dieting and exercising but it didn't do anything. Until I tried this natural herbal enhancer which is meant to increase the sex drive along with other things I've noticed. It's a topical oil called Hersolution Gel which is like an instant libido boost. Along with that my sensations are just blasting and my orgasms are then best. Read up about it at herenhancement.com where I saved on it at the time. It got better with every application. I was skeptical at first but the companies return policy made me commit. From what I remember you have to try out for a couple months but then after that you can return it if it doesn't work. It would work great for your situation considering your pregnant and theres no need to swallow anything. Well good luck and I hope this helps.

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    i be attentive to that's frustrating attempting to stay calm till you hit upon out. i grow to be that way and that's my 2d infant! do no longer placed too lots stalk into the chinese language gender and different gender prediction assessments. they are actually not all that precise. i will inform you slightly I discovered from my first being pregnant and now this one. Boys do no longer make you as sick as women do, so in case you had lots of morning ailment that's probable a woman. while you're quite cranky or moody, that's probable a boy. in case you crave candies, this is a woman. i don't be attentive to why those issues are, besides the fact that it hasn't been with in basic terms me. I had a boy in 2007 and am having a woman in Feb. and my buddies have had the comparable issues ensue with each and each of their's. that's exciting to guess however. Congrats.

  • 1 decade ago

    I am 37 weeks and its been awhile since we last had sex. I think its normal. Because now you know there's a little person between the two of you.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    ya i keep thinking of the movie knowcked up and what if we poke the kid in the eye or something.

  • 1 decade ago

    its normal and its ok because there is a baby

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