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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsMarriage & Divorce · 1 decade ago

Why is my ex boyfriend acting like he hates me.?

my ex boyfriend is acting like he hates me and we have only been broke up 1 month and we got in an arguement the last time we spoke. any way but whys he talking bad about me and making faces and telling my friend he hates me when i know he dont? He doesn't want to be friends and he ia avoiding me

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  • Mary B
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    It's time to distance yourself from him as much as possible for now. Yes, he is acting immature but, is obviously hurt by whatever happened between you two. In time, possibly he will want to be friends with you but, for now he is not at that point so just leave him be. Spend time doing things you enjoy & try to ignore anything you hear that he has said about you- I'm sure it will stop soon once he sees that it doesn't bother you. Take care!

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  • Anonymous
    6 years ago

    A great way to get your ex back is https://tr.im/YJivs

    They might realize they need you and come crawling back!

    If you do get back together, don't let the same issues that destroyed your relationship crop up again. Have a good, long talk about how you're both going to make it right this time.

  • 1 decade ago

    boys seem to do that often after you break up,no matter how long or serious the relationship is most guys find stupid reasons to be mean to you.i was in a relationship and once we broke up, we were still friends for aboout a month, but then after that he was pretty much an *** to me..and still is, we never talk or even say hi to eachother.in your situation, it could be he might need a month or two to let out some anger, and then you will be able to be friends again.

  • 1 decade ago

    Pull your head out of your azz. You guys broke up. Means he probably doesn't like you very much right now. SO yeah he may say hate-full things and make faces at you? What are you guys like 12 years old or something? You guys broke up leave it at that and maybe think about growing up alilttle bit before your next relationship.

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  • King H
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    Singles and dating question...

    Anyway, we're only getting one half of the story, really not that much as you did not explain why you guys broke up. What you should do is just leave him alone. Leave his friends alone. Leave his family alone. When he calls don't answer. Be cordial when spoken to. All communication should cease and you should just live your life.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    He is the ex. What do you expect. Typically when a friendship develops after the break up, it takes some time. Especially if it isn't a mutual break up.

  • 1 decade ago

    Sounds like you haven't let him go yet, and sounds like he doesn't want anymore to do with you. It's sad that you may not be friends, but you should just move on and forget about him because you'll keep getting hurt. Go find someone that will be good to you!

  • 1 decade ago

    i know its really hard to move on after 1 month of breaking up with someone...but you really need to not care, he is your ex for a reason! he obviously does not like you...telling your friends he hates you? move on. you can do better.

  • 1 decade ago

    He's your ex, so what does it really matter. Were you married to him or did you divorce him? Just wondering. He doesn't have to be your friend if he is your ex. Let it go an move on--it's best for both.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    He is your ex!!! Who cares if he hates you!!! Move on and get you someone else!!!!! It sounds like you still love him. If you still have feelings for him then you need to stop being stubborn and tell him how you feel. If not, move the hell on!!!!

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