Am I overreacting or being too harsh?

i do understand that this really made u feel 'JUNK',but don't let other people who don't deserve u as a friend get in the way of u being a good friend...because it seems that u are a nice person.and u not being to harsh or over reacting, it's normal as it can being frustrating when people takes one for a fool...u feel how u feel it will get better thou...

It was probably a case of everyone thinking that someone else will go. Next time make sure that you have at least one definate, then you won't be sat in the pub alone!

Tell the person who really bothered you how you feel, he might not realise how much him going meant to you.

No, you are defenatly not being too harsh i think you said the exact right things, if she had a good excuse for not being there then i think you should talk it over with him, but he was being harsh not showing up.

there should be something very serious lapse,or people don't like you organizing it. may be they don't like the spot you in tented to visit. you need to address these issues very thoroughly, and threadbare. from your question I understand that it has been going on for long. address the issues threadbare and you need to solve them immediately.. past is to be forgotten.move on.you will succeed soon.

sorry to hear that, just try and forget about it and maybe people just had other plans or had to get home or appointments somewhere, don't take too personal thought and don't expect too much and then won't get disappointed, take care.

it is harsh but you have to deal with it but dont overreact but if continues overreact just give it time :)