Guys, if you're capable of marrying 4 wives, how do you treat them equally?

I just don't understand why there is a need to marry 4 wives, although it's an approved law.

I am a guy. Well, I love women. But always believe in equality of human beings and Karma.

What if a lady is having 4 husbands?

Can men accept that?

If men's answer is Yes, then only men are "qualified" to marry 4 wives.

Just my point of view. No right or wrong answer!

selam aleykum, bcuz all muslims are and this is becuz allah (s.w.t.) allowed us; and now we are in a position to in basic terms think of why: properly if u think of that a guy can do extra babys with 4 women individuals u could think of wow thats comfortable for the folk, and then if u think of a woman could marry 4 men u see there isnt the convenience like a guy could marry 4 women individuals. in cases of war that's a great situation to refull the inhabitants. in any case we shouldnt ask to each rule, why? salam :>

if i know the man i love is married to 3 women and still together, and i'm the next, i don't want to marry that guy.

but seriously, what's the use of marrying 4? it will just result in a shattered life. all the wives will compete to get their husband's affection, who knows what will they do?

Nuh-uh!

Why should I share my husband?

The vows of together until death ain't to be taken lightly. I give my love to him and the kids and I expect his love in return!

Besides, too much sex ain't good as the quality will go downhill so much. That's what doctors already say.

Note: Still single. Not sure if I wanna be married at all...

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not sure about performance wise...

but surely there's bound to be a favourite among the 4 wives right?

thus will cause disfavour, unhappiness, discontentment..

unhappy wives will make a man's life feels like hell

ADD : garumi, RM800 per month for each wife enough meh??

There is no way to treat them equally. They are, afterall different individuals with different attitude and thinking.

Another way to ask this type of question which does not involve personal emotions is, "Teachers, how do you treat all 30 of your students equally?"

Teacher A: "Tell me how"

Teacher B: "I also want to know"

Teacher C: "I just like the one that is cute and obedient"

2 days for each wife ... Rm800 per month for each of them, get a same type of house for each of them, make only 2 babies from each of them, get kancil for each of them, all must be equal ... BUT

for the feeling ... even Prophet Muhammad pbuh said in one hadith .. he can't deny the fact that he love Aishah (his youngest wife) more than the others. you can't deny the feeling but you may treat them equally and not to hurt any one of them.

about performance on bed ... foursome la .. wahahhahaha

It's okay. I will also take 4 husbands. If i'm not satisfied w/ 1st husband, then I go for 2nd, and so on and so forth.

4 only not enough, if I'm a billionaire i will have 1000 wife and i give 1 million per wife baru siok

i have no idea about the their performance...maybe can and maybe cannot..but what most women concern is about love ..they don't want equal love..we want more .....we want to be the one and only..so the man who have 4 wife will never satisfy the wife emotionally