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This is a test. ok, lets see just how smart you "kids" really are...?

My wife and I are both 51 and have a decent marraige. Next month is our 25th wedding anniversary. The kids are grown. We had a huge argument last night and we both want out (mentioned while arguing). Yet, we love eachother very much. Do we throw away 25 years and split? Or do we laugh it off later and continue with our marraige? Remember, this is a test. My wife and I already know eachothers answers.

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  • Dom
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    I GOT IT!

    NO! YOU DO NOT SPLIT! Of course this is a weak test because we don't know the whole situation. Are you gay? A drug addict? Abusive? Cheating?

    That makes a difference. If you want to break it off because you fought, then I don't get why you would divorce unless you had someone else on the side.

    When I was younger, I worked at a pizza place with 45+ year old newly divorcees. Those guys were miserable and had no hope. Why? Where do you go to find someone new? eHarmony?

    You made it through 25 years of fighting, why not 25 more?

    Think of the tax and assets mess you would go through!

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    Yup, completely disregarded 4000 years of its education and teachings , which contain the areas asserting it by no ability differences, in a 33 year span. i think of, someplace in that lacking element of Yeshua's existence tale, he got here to the top that he'd been sort of a jerk whilst he replaced into in simple terms God. and then theory, "How am i able to be an excellent bigger jerk? i comprehend, i'm going to do something so logically contradictory that any smart person could brush aside it, and then make believing it real to be the only thank you to realize heaven!"

  • 1 decade ago

    duh!! suck it up and stay together

    everyone wants out at some point

    but 25 years is a long time...

    what makes this fight any different than any other you've had.

    I'm sure there has been worse and if you made it theough those then you can make it another 25!

    congrats by the way not many people make it that far now a days!

  • 1 decade ago

    Laugh it off. if you and your wife truly love each other stay together. Make give her a flower to show your sorry and say how much you love her. After Twenty-Five years it is pointless too break up.

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  • 1 decade ago

    ok the fact u say test i assume u are refering to your argument, testing how strong your relationship is?

    and also refering to "us kids" you mean we dont stay the course like we should and give up too easily on things?

    i know you stayed together... correct?

    : but im now gettin a feeling that maybe this was the last straw, maybe you should of put the toilet seat down this time, maybe it is too late for sorry's :P lol.

    meh make up sex is good eh ;) lol

  • 1 decade ago

    25 years is a lot to WASTE! How do I know? I wasted 25 years with my ex!! She cheated, after 25 years!! Now, neither one of you has cheated, so by-gones, be by-gones, kiss and make up! Don't waste what you have!! Laugh it off, and continue!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    You keep going - ya made it this far, you've been through a million other fights, when you didn't know each other as well as you do now.. or I guess, ya FINALLY figured things aren;t gonna change and you can't hide behind the kids anymore so you split. My guess is that you will work it out. I guess it could go either way if you BOTH want out though. Wow. I dunno.

  • 1 decade ago

    You suck it up and stay in it for the long haul! By the way, the next time you want to test someone, you might want to proof read it first!

  • 1 decade ago

    Depends on what you were arguing about I guess. Unless is it something that is unforgiveable, laugh it off and continue on

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    obviously laugh it off. marriage is NOT some kind of a game.. you're in a beautiful commitment.. fights/arguments are bound to happen

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