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jmax
Lv 4
jmax asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 1 decade ago

How do i stop a un wanted visitor comming from inter state?

she is the partner of my husbands best mate,she is on the dole never has any money,expects us to pay her way.she is a smoker and a drinker.when she drinks she be comes violent.she drinkes every day.we live on a isolated cattle proptery with our 3 young kids.we even have to pay for her air fair home as well as her smokes and beer,my husband is to genours to say no,and dosnt want to risk his friendship with her partner.she knows we live comftably and can afford a few extras and bludges all the time.all she is out for is a free holiday at our expence

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  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Don't buy and cigarettes or booze. If she brings her own, and becomes violent, take her to the air port first thing in the morning. No friend is worth putting up with that behavior. You have children you need to protect. And even if you didn't, enough is enough already. I simply wouldn't have her here. Period.

  • Jim B
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    TELL HER NO! Or continue to be walked on. If he is really your husbands buddy he will understand! Be truthful,.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Stop letting her mooch off of you. Mooches tend to go away, once they are cut off.

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