Why are men in their 40's and early 50's so hot to me?

I think it is because you are a very intelligent young woman. :))

I am 51, BTW. But, sorry, I am very happily married to a absolutely gorgeous 42 year old woman.

You probably find us attractive because we are stable, have developed our bad habits and aren't likely to acquire more. :)) If you can live with them, we won't get worse. :))) We are the best lovers on the planet (so says my wife) I think there may be a feeling that a man that age with a woman your age is not likely to stray since he thinks he hit the jackpot...don't bet on that.

To be completely honest with you, and not to be insulting and don't take this personally, but I would not be attracted to a woman your age (if I was single) for the exact opposite reasons you may be attracted to older men. I would be afraid a woman your age is NOT stable, not settled, and IS likely to stray. Personally I do not find women less than late 30's to be attractive. But, as I said, it doesn't really matter, I am long "off the market" but thought I might give you some insight. My wife was also not interested in men younger than her (or her same age) and thinks our (almost) 10 year age difference to be ideal for her.

She is also the more "beautiful" in our relationship and says she prefers that also. I am no troll, but maybe a "7" to her "9.8" and she feels the woman should be the more attractive of the couple to assure fidelity. :))) I would never cheat on her, but not JUST because she is the most beautiful woman in the world.

I have always been attracted to older men, and at 27 was married a much older man. He was mature, sexy, experienced in bed, protective of me, spoiled me rotten, treated me like a queen and had a good career.

What's wrong with that?

Happy hunting!

I feel the same, ..only, men that age that fall for us young women are usually creeps. But I'm sure you'll figure thta out sooner or later.

Good luck

It's weird, but did you have a stable relationship with your father? Being strongly attracted to older men is often linked to women who didn't grow up with a father in the household or just didn't have a strongly influential male in thier life that they developed a healthy relationship during childhood.

Ya! They hang out on the sofa's in their expensive homes, watching TV with their wives and kids.

Sometimes they hang out in the garage, fixing stuff.

Men that age "have got it going on"! They are attractive, intelligent, and great in bed...what's NOT to love???

dear we do really now how to treat you gals very good for sure and we know how to really make good love to you gals

I dont think that you are the only one. I personaly like to pick at their brain, they have such interesting conversations, and great in bed. (LOL)

weird my sis finds robert downey jr atractive and he's like 43

women in their late 20's know what's good.. and sexual experience and $$ is good for them