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My girlfriend's little issue...?

She says that she has too large of a sexual appetite, and she feels bad for me. She says that she thinks about it too often and she thinks that she is cheating me by being sexually focused so often.

We do spend the majority of the time doing the typical bf&gf things, but how do I get her to not feel so bad about it all?

Update:

Oi, I do it with her as often as she likes (and if setting permits), but its the feelings she has about it that's the problem. That's why I'm asking.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    *Blink*

    Um, has it ever crossed your mind that what she REALLY means when she says this stuff is, "look, you want sex too often and cos I like you, we always have some, and its getting me down. I would really like to 'connect with you' on a more deeper mental level, ya know, conversations, just hanging out, doing other stuff together....... but I know the second I say that its you wanting sex too much you'll get defensive, so I'm saying 'I' think about it too much so you'll maybe try and help me, not USE my problem for more sex"

    Like, is it possible THIS is what she really is tryin to tell you?

    If it is, and you feel she really is too weirded out with some concept of men that may be totally wrong to just TELL YOU what she really means instead of dancing around the issue hoping you'll figure it out....(hon, women just don't do this....we are odd creatures heh) ......then the next time she makes a move on you, try pulling her close, with her arms trapped in your hug...and whisper summit like "hon, I'd really love it if we just cuddled, its real nice to just hold and be held, listen to the beat of our hearts as they become one " yadda yadda....and then JUST cuddle. Don't take it any further....except for chatting.

    Do that almost as often as actually having sex.

    Yea yea....your hormones are gonna be running round going "DUDE!! what the hell...are ya mad!" .......but you'll get a LOT of kudos points from ya gal for it.

    Especially if this is what she has really been trying to say.

  • By not bitching like a little pussy about a girl wanting to have a load of sex with you. You should be greatful, I'm not getting anything.

    If you are really concerned consider having her go to a sex therapist or a counselor or something of that nature.

    Best of luck!

  • 1 decade ago

    Well i guess she wouldn't feel bad about it if you showed her that you enjoy her sexual appetite and can never get enough...if that's the case?

    =D

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Well,i think u should be more often with her,spend time with her,have more sex with her....

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    tell her that your ok with her feeling that way and that there is nothing wrong with it

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    By doin what she wants to do all the time :)

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Have more sex?! Does she really have such a high libido! Cor., can she chuck it my way?! :)

  • 1 decade ago

    screw her over and over

  • 1 decade ago

    have more sex...

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