Sexual issue...?

Well. Why does she think this ?

One cause can be caltural-educational. As a woman she may feel not-confertable with her sexuallity.

You can tell her the sex help you connecting too, ans that she does not need to hold her satisfaction because of it.

You can ask her what does she think can help, and create a solution together with her....

goodluck

*Blink*

Um, has it ever crossed your mind that what she REALLY means when she says this stuff is, "look, you want sex too often and cos I like you, we always have some, and its getting me down. I would really like to 'connect with you' on a more deeper mental level, ya know, conversations, just hanging out, doing other stuff together....... but I know the second I say that its you wanting sex too much you'll get defensive, so I'm saying 'I' think about it too much so you'll maybe try and help me, not USE my problem for more sex"

Like, is it possible THIS is what she really is tryin to tell you?

If it is, and you feel she really is too weirded out with some concept of men that may be totally wrong to just TELL YOU what she really means instead of dancing around the issue hoping you'll figure it out....(hon, women just don't do this....we are odd creatures heh) ......then the next time she makes a move on you, try pulling her close, with her arms trapped in your hug...and whisper summit like "hon, I'd really love it if we just cuddled, its real nice to just hold and be held, listen to the beat of our hearts as they become one " yadda yadda....and then JUST cuddle. Don't take it any further....except for chatting.

Do that almost as often as actually having sex.

Yea yea....your hormones are gonna be running round going "DUDE!! what the hell...are ya mad!" .......but you'll get a LOT of kudos points from ya gal for it.

Especially if this is what she has really been trying to say.

WITH ur way you have to make her relize that things are not like that!!!....................................