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Soulmate and age?

is it wrong to love your soulmate whom is double your age and has 2 kids and seperated (never married)- 1 is approx 6yrs younger than you and the other is 10yrs younger, also that person and you can't concentrate when each other is in the room even if other people are there...

Update:

we have known each other for 5+ yrs and even tho we are friends we have a chemisitry you can't explain

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we have known each other for 10+ yrs and even tho we are friends we have a chemisitry you can't explain

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we have known each other for 10+ yrs and even tho we are friends we have a chemisitry you can't explain

Update 4:

we have known each other for 10+ yrs and even tho we are friends we have a chemisitry you can't explain

Update 5:

sorry for the repeat my computer is stange it is 5 to close to 10yrs

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  • 1 decade ago
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    I don't think age matters, unless it's really ridiculous, like you're 30 & they're 60, because of a huge generational gap, that makes it difficult to relate to their upbringing, favorite songs, actors, & lifestyles. Compatability, communication & respect are important no matter your age. So, NO! it is not wrong to love anyone! If I understood correctly, you meant his kids are younger than you, by 6 yrs. & 10yrs. No problem, you will probably be understanding to them, being close in age! If you feel chemistry and respect, then don't listen to other close minded people's opinions!

  • 1 decade ago

    Dear Kim,

    You have spoken about soulmate and I hope the definition of soulmate is clear to you. I don't try to preach you here but put the fact as it is. The person double your age knows your heart and responds accordingly. I understand he has not married but has two kids and now stays separated from his previous so called (love/ girlfriend/friend/wife). The other lady in his life must have felt the same as you do now, in the beginning of their relationship. But alas! If he has not proven his faithfulness to one then I doubt he would continue with another so called (soulmate). If you are willing to take the challenge and put your self into trial of 'soulmate faithfulness check', you can do so. But I personally feel, you should seriously think twice before you commit. Even if age may not be a problem in a marriage but character of a person does count. Hope you will take a wise decision to have a beautiful future in the days to come.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Soulmate?

    No there is nothing wrong with any age difference.

    if you are making love to each other, (anything more than holding hands) then age becomes an issue.

    If you are both over around 28 then age isnot an issue at all. If one of you is not yet of legal age then being soulmates is finejust don't let it get physical until long after you are both legal. (my advice is to always make sure that at least one of the parents of the younger member is present at ALL times when the two of you are together if oneof you is not of legal age.)

    If you have found your soulmate, then you are a lucky person.

    Enjoy.

    Source(s): My heart
  • 1 decade ago

    It completely depends on your ethics, what you think is right. But from my standpoint somebody like you who I'm guessing is probably the 20 something year old trying to start a relationship with a 40 something it would be wrong. You're at the age where you could be one of the kids sisters, thats just a little messed up in my opinion.

    But once again, its whatever your ethics are.

    Source(s): I saw the same thing happen between my married uncle and a woman that was younger than his 2 kids
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  • Rosa
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    I don't think it's ever wrong to love someone. I just think that a lot of people don't really know the true meaning of soul mate. I'm not saying this person isn't your soul mate but, make sure that it's someone that you want to live with the rest of your life. You will have to become a mom too. Think long about this one. Make sure that he feels the same and then go for it. Why wait?

  • 1 decade ago

    u know love is love cant stop that it may be a little wierd to the kids ur more like a sister but still ppl mary ppl way older then them

  • 1 decade ago

    get to know this person better before jumping in if he has all kinds of personal problems then I would say no and sometimes age can go against the person

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    depends on how old you are ?if you are at least 18 or not tell me and i will tell you your answer and i need to know if he looks like you in the face.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    It's not wrong to find your soulmate.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I believe it doesn't sound exactly right, but hey it's not my life.

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