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what do i say about this?
my 17 year old sister just told me today that two years ago, when i was 16, she walked in on me and my boyfriend having sex. she would have been 14 then. gosh i feel bad and stupid and embarrased now. i know when i was 14 i wouldnt have wanted to see my older sister doing stuff with her boyfriend. what do i say to her about this? obviously it has been bothering her if she told me now, i mean, why mention it it's been two years?god i feel so stupid now. what do i say to her? do you think i should tell my husband that she saw us(my then boyfriend,now hubby) i wouldnt say anything, but i think it has been bothering her are else she wouldnt have mentionedit righ..? ugh, i feel so stupid now.
i<3 my dog..oh god no, it wasnt HER boyfriend i had sex with, it was MY boyfriend. and he is now my husband and we are expecting our second child together
4 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Your right. She would have forgot if it wasnt worrying her. You should tell her that you didnt really mean for her to walk in. You should say that you shouldnt of had sex with her boyfriend. Tell her why you did and what happend. Tell her your sorry. Tell her that you should of told me earlier, then you wouldnt be bothered by this for so long. Tell her that you are her big sister and that you dont want things to change. Tell her you love her and that you care about how she feels. Sit down and talk about it. Make sure she is finished about the subject before you decide to stop thinking about it. If she isnt through then it will still be at the top of her head. you need to understand how she felt on that day, and how she feels now. Good luck and listen to her.
- letterstoheatherLv 71 decade ago
This isn't between you and your sister and husband, it's a private matter between you and your sister.
I don't think you need to have a lengthy conversation about it, but you can always tell her you're sorry if she was offended, and leave it at that. You can't change the past.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
It happens, don't feel bad, it was an accident. Kids accidentally walk in on their parents having sex all the time and while it's gross it's not a life-damaging thing.
- VatsuXLv 41 decade ago
umm...i dont really know what i would say neither. maybe ask if she was affected in any way?
