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Is forgiveness the key to happiness?
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- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
I say most definately forgiveness is one of the most valuable of a few keys to happiness,if you keep hate inside of you because someone hurt you or did you wrong you literally carry that person with you everywhere you go and constantly on your mind,one major problem with the world today is we as a people or a nation are too unforgiving ,remember forgiving is not only giving the other person a chance but also letting go and freeing up yourself of unnecessary burden and most importantly forgiving one does not mean embracing them again ,you can forgive them and let go off them in other words letting them go in peace as you yourself will be free of that reminder of hurt .oh yes it feels good to forgive especially when you genuinely do so ,it is a spiritual cleanser and why keep hate with you everyday and everywhere you go......let it go and move on
- 1 decade ago
Keeping wrongs on your mind will only make you unhappy when you remember them. I remember a time when I had a fight with my best friend and I got so mad at him. Whenever I thought about him I always got upset until the day when I decided to let go of my grudge. He did not ask for forgiveness but I gave it to him just so I could have some peace. And guess what it worked so yes forgiveness is the key to happiness
- 1 decade ago
If you live your life never forgiving those you sin against you (that sounds slightly religious, I just presumed it would be the most appropriate context) then you will end up bitter and resentful. So yes, to some extent, forgiveness is the key to happiness, for if you never forgive and forget you hold on to peoples wrong doings rather than accepting them and appreciating that person has probably learnt from their mistake, then all that hate and anger towards those people will just build up, thus causing you to be unhappy!
- crrllpmLv 71 decade ago
It is certainly one of the things that can bring you happiness or contentment. Holding onto a grudge and carrying all that extra baggage that goes with the grudge can be exhausting emotionally. If you can see the person in a different light and forgive what they have done to you it lightens your load and also your life. Incidentally, that person you need to forgive could also be yourself. Getting rid of guilt is a life-freeing experence too.
Forgiveness is a huge attitude shift and can really be difficult, but the benefits to you are worth the effort.
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- ?Lv 44 years ago
Forgiveness is a style of back door to happiness. It potential which you have already judged somebody. At this element the wear has been finished and the terrific which you're able to do is to forgive the blunders which you have already made via judging them. authentic Happiness happens each and every time we are no longer judging something. Any time which you're no longer judging you're happy. the 2d which you start up off judging, you detect something to be unhappy approximately. that's that straightforward. Love and reward Don
- Virginia WLv 51 decade ago
It most certainly is one of the keys. Since the beginning of time mankind has felt guilty and each civilization tried in their own way to get forgivness, and relieve guilt, from their gods.
On a person to person level unforgiveness is not healthy physically or emotionally.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Forgiveness, YES
But, forgiveness AND granting a second chance to do a repeat of history is your ticket to constant misery
Forgive, learn, grow, MOVE ON !
Pain without learning is to squander your pain.
- 1 decade ago
It's one of the keys. It benefits you more than them. Sounds easy to put in words, but put it into action and you'll see what good it will do.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Yes it is... when it comes to relationships and if you really want to be with that person. Been there. You're only other option would be to end it.