Would you be his g/f ladies please be honest survey only?

well you can apologize but you played yourself already. Me, I would not have brushed him off. I like baller bellies. LOL but life will throw things at you like that to test you. I wish that would have happened to me.We would be slow dancing all the way to the bank. I only reject a guy in the club if he deserves it and being big is just not a good enough reason.

well, uhm, I'd at least talk to him. I'm not that rude!

If I felt comfortable with him, I'd dance with him.

I definitely don't have a lot of female friends, so that situation wouldn't happen.

And if he won the lottery, I imagine, after taxes, not much would be left. Considering other people win the lottery too.

Money isn't a turn on for me. If he's right for me he's right. Regardless of wealth or being " a bit on the plus size"

i would talk to a plus size man if he came over to me. whether or not i was attracted to him. i would even dance with him. its just conversation and a dance. not a commitment. if he asked me out or let me know he was interested and i was not attracted to him that way i would politely turn him down and thank him for his interest. if i laughed at him and made him unhappy or hurt his feelings and was aware i did that i would appolgize, i would tell him i was acting stupid to impress my friends and tell him i was sorry for being so shallow and then ask him to lunch or coffee on a friends only basis. his financial status would not make him suddenly attractive so i would never let him think there could be anything more than a friendship.

First off, I'd talk to him for a bit and if I really was enjoying his company I'd accept the dance but prolly wouldn't hand out my number to him unless I liked him a bit or enjoyed talking to him.

And if I hadn't liked him and had denied the dance, and my girlfriends came up saying he was the lottery winner I still wouldn't care. I'm not about money. And I wouldn't go apologize and try and get close to him just because he was.

Ok, I think this is the most bizarre thing I've read lately, (maybe it's on account of it being 4 am), but I think an easy answer is: the self centred girls will not give him the time of day, while the confident and intelligent women would have no trouble talking to him, and possibly want a friendship, or more. Period. Cheers, Jennifer

Ok i totally believe in personality matters but physical attraction comes before that.. so yes i would probably make an excuse to walk away.. i would feel terrible but still how can i go with a guy im not even attracted to in the first place. and if he won the lottery i wouldn't go back for him.. im not some freaky chick after money...

I wouldn't have treated him that way in the first place. Never judge a book by its cover! as such I would not have to apologise. If I was shallow and behaved in the way described above, I would apologise (knowing I was being shallow anyway). This must be a really good guy to just reject you, in his place - I would take you for a lovely ride, enjoy the sex and dump you as soon as I found another willing bimbo.

No,because the money wouldn't influence how I felt about someone. If I rejected a bloke because I found him to be unnatractive I'm not likely to find him attractive just because he is loaded.Sucking up to money is revolting!

if you're asking if the type of girl you just described would feel sorry for making fun of the fat guy after finding out he won millions of dollars in the lottery, then yes, most likely she would feel bad...for missing out on the money. if you're asking if most women other would be like this, the answer is "it depends." some women might reject a guy and suddenly find him more appealing if he has money. some women (myself included) wouldn't find him any more attractive with money. of course, i also wouldn't laugh at a guy who hit on me simply because he's overweight. so, i can't really speak for those who would laugh.

If he was a nice guy with good attitude and a good sense of humor, I'd stay and chat. To a slow dance? Hmm, probably not because I really don't know who he is! Then if i heard about his winnings, I'd congratulate him. Oh, and if my friends laugh at him, I'd tell them that it's kind of mean, because that made him feel bad!