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How do I respond to him?

I've been writing to someone online (please no judgement on this), he's fit, got his life together seems very nice. He just sent a photo and he's way goodlooking. Problem is, I'm not. How do I tell him that he is way out of my league and that he will have to look beyond "skin deep" beauty with me? I am short and fat. How do I respond to him? I have to write back soon and don't know what to say.

I have been upset about this all day because I know I will have to deal with being rejected once he finds out what I look like?

Also how do I deal with the rejection?

Thanks for all your help in advance.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    so he is shallow? he should like you for you not your weight. many guys like girls with some meat. and aren't into that zombie look. so send him a pic of you and wait for his respond. if you are meant to have a relationship with this guy then it will Happen. Stop putting your self down i bet there are many good qualities that you have. best of wishes

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