Why would she do that?

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My friend recently told me that I was always clinging to her and another friend who agreed that I was clingy(actually I hadn't spoken to this other friend for the past 2 days).I already knew that they didn't like my company because they made it so obvious(they didn't have to say it because whatever they did made it so clear).I was angry at this friend because she herself was clingy. Everyone in the school knew that she was not well-liked and she always clung to whoever was willing to befriend her even if they treated her like dirt(it has happened before).I told her that and she couldn't deny it.Then I said that she had just admitted that she and my other friend had backstabbed me.She tried denying it but it just didn't convince me. Just call her X to make this easier. I only "cling" to X because most of the time, nobody wants to sit or talk to her. I don't know why. In my class,a way to start a conversation is to ask whether you liked X, followed by a list of why you despise X.

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Even when another friend of mine asked me whether I liked X,I just said that X was not the nicest person in the world.Genuinely, I kinda pity X. A lot of people backstab her. They say she's stuck-up and stuff like that. She also backstabs others, including me and roughly everyone she meets. X and my other friend said that I should make other friends(which I have but most people are half of a pair of best friends and I have something against separating best friends because I know what it feels like to lose a best friend). You can request for more details

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

they are not good friends then....friends will never backstabbed you and talk about you behind your back. I suggest to move on and tell her Sayonara........Get new friends or something.

Jacey · Answer

Well...obviously, you just want to hang out with her...I mean you guys are friends..right?
If they are going to be rude and hateful..don't even waste your time on them.
I had the same problem. One of my "best" friends started treating me like crap, and I spoke up about it, and we got into this huge fight, and everyone took her side. I lost half of my friends over that fight, but it's ok. They weren't my real friends anyway. But now I have the best friend in the world. You just have to find someone you can really trust.

jodiprossr · Answer

Some people say things to hurt you, because they are jealous of you.  It makes them feel better about themselves if they put someone else down.
I would make new friends and start hanging out with new people.
When they come around, just walk away.  
They aren't really your friends.  Especially, if they back stabbed you.

Anonymous · Answer

if you don't like X, don't be her friend!
obviously, she doesn't have any real friends, so why should you even bother if she treats you like that. you have other friends- hang out with them.

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Why would she do that?

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