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Friend or not?

Basically I've got a work mate who I generally get on very well with. I've always thought we'd be great friends but lately he's puzzled me. There are times when he is being really friendly and kind with me and then he would ignore me totally or let me down. He's told me before that he likes me and values our friendship but quite a lot of the time his actions don't fit his words.

I don't quite understand why he is being like this and I'm starting to be fed up of making efforts and having next to nothing in return.

What would you do in my position? Carry on like this or just not bothering anymore? And why are men so complicated?!

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  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    i would stop bothering, if he values the friendship , he wouldnt treat you like that, plus if u dont bother, he could ask you whats up, then u no he cares. you ever thought that maybe this guy likes you more than a friend?

    lol, men are so complicated, cos there pigs,lol

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Sorry we guys are so complicated, if you the friendship isn't a two way street then its more of a parasite relationship, if nothing comes in return then ignore him

  • beanie
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    Not bother. Your time is too valuable to waste on moody people.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    im sorry to say some men just dont fink i wuld give him a miss

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