Ladies: I need your advice?

Reside the house. That should show her... jk..

You are going to have to be more aware of how you handle yourself and back off when you feel yourself putting on the pressure. Moving forward, even if it is baby steps is a good thing. She is right, the issues that separated you need to be addressed and resolved before you can totally get back together..The only thing that concerns me is, if backing off is too hard now, then it's not going to work in the long run.

This sounds like my husband & me. First, save the hugging, kissing & touching for the bedroom. An occasional peck on the cheek or lips is ok, but i feel very uncomfortable when he kisses on me out in public or especially in front of the kids. When my husband does "tasks" for me or our family, it helps me out a great deal, as I do almost everything for the family, ie., laundry, cooking, grocery shopping, cleaning, running the kids to where they need to go, day & night, take them to school, pick them up from school, all while I hold down a 9 hour a day job!! I'm tired!! So, yes when he does a few of these "tasks" for me, It makes me happy & therefore I would want to have sex more often & it makes me in a much better mood. So, if your wife has these same issues, then I'd advise you to do more of these so called "tasks"

Sounds like you're pushing her and if you don't take a step back from that then you'll lose her.

Think of ot this way.... you are moving forward and that's a great thing. it's not as fast as you want but do you want to separate again maybe for good! No.

You have to respect her and give her the space she needs and in the long run you guys will be an even better couple than before.

Good luck.

mmm...I think maybe you need to calm down a bit. Hug or kiss her hello and goodbye, but don't demand constant coddling - it is pressuring and don't be controlling or demanding. Love, honor and negotiate.

Agree with her, that will take the pressure off and end a lot of arguing. Example: "you're right, I was late" or "I agree with you, we should take it slower"

Try something new like playing scrabble in the evening (that will keep you busy and you can communicate with words instead of all touching.

Joy to you!

You are not the problem; your wife simply has no understanding of men and their desires. You are not different than any normal man so stop feeling guilty and instead it would be a good idea to work your issues out with a third party so you won't be made into the bad guy anymore. If you don't fix this basic misunderstanding you'll have a lifetime of frustration.

Have you tried marriage counseling? Marriage is a two-way street and you need to try and meet somewhere in the middle.

It shouldn't be just what she wants, your desires and feelings count too. Try practicing a little patience if it works out it will be worth it in the end.

You can slow yourself down by thinking about the consequences if you push her to fast.

You obviously love her very much and i hope that you can work it all out- best wishes.

You just need to respect the fact that she for some reason is not ready to move any faster. But she has to realize that if you are going to give in that way, she needs to lighten up some, too. Do you really want to spend the rest of your life catering to her and not receiving anything in return?

respect what she wanting,it will all pay off in the end!

don't push her away,be patient!