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ex lovers do you forgive and forget or not?

when your lover leaves you and you know there is no chance of a reconcilliation do you forget or do you carry on and forget??

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  • ?
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    IF YOU FORGET THEM ,IT MEANS YOU NEVER LOVED THEM IN THE FIRST PLACE ,to love with a passion is Soo SPECIAL and imprinted in your heart and mind forever,its my opinion ,but i think you just love ,or be in love with love just once in your lifetime , you can love many , but to consume that love with a passion is next to none , hope this helps you xx

  • mikey
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    it depends. There's been one particular person in my life I'll never forgive. She was having it off with a married man and planning a wedding to me at the same time! yeah well...I took that a little personally. It was a very long time ago..but I still go out of my way to make sure she never forgets it.

  • 1 decade ago

    It really depends on whether you want a reconciliation. Did they leave you for someone else..or did the relationship just run its course?

    If it's the former, then you will feel bitter for a while, but then as time heals wounds, you will move on.

    If it's the latter, then you will feel less bitter, but possibly more sad, but either way, as time moves on, so will you.

    It's never easy to get over a broken relationship, but human nature is quite resilient, and given time, the heart will mend.

    Don't rush to get over it; let yourself adjust. In time, you will find that someone special who is waiting for you; I did.

    Source(s): Having had my heart broken and finding my soulmate.
  • Lily H
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    I used to forget and carry on.

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  • Missy
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    Carry on and forget, no matter how much theyve hurt you be the better person move on and do better than they do in life! x

  • 1 decade ago

    you should forget, and just keeping moving on with life...there are other ppl out there, explore the world don't stettle for just one person, casue i'm sure they have forgotten all bout you

  • 1 decade ago

    carry on and forget,,,,it"s their loss

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