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A friend of mine wants to have a physical relationship only..?

And I'm totally cool with that. Having a bed buddy.

But I'm not sure if she can get hurt. I know she wanted to have a relationship with me before, but I don't want to have one with her. I told her that and she said it was fine.

Should I go ahead with it?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Heh heh - dude if you don't see this for the trap that it is- man you gotta wake UP!

    ALL MEN (and women) : tell me this girl isn't going to get herself pregnant and trap this guy?

    Don't give us the "she's on the pill" or "we use condoms" argument- the Brand New Thing in this society (with young girls anyway) is to get pregnant, but beyond that, girls have been getting pregnant to trap men for thousands of years! And they keep falling for it because they like sex so much (until they get married LOL).

    Dude, you can do anything you want, but promise me this: when she gets pregnant and hits you up, you HAVE to get back on here and admit it.

  • 1 decade ago

    It sounds as if she is trying to get close to you any way possible, hoping that it will lead to a relationship.

    You need to make it clear again you don't want a relationship if you do decide to.

    But I would say no. Bed buddies does not work if one has feelings for the other.

  • 1 decade ago

    No because if she develops even more feelings, and yes sex can bring a person closer, then you will be in deeper trouble. I say leave her alone completely and find a girl YOU like and one that wants more than just a physical relationship.

  • 1 decade ago

    She will probably get hurt and it could ruin your friendship. She may think if she gets physical she can change your mind about being with her. If you value her as a friend, don't do it.

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  • 1 decade ago

    She will get hurt. But if you are an asshole (like most guys) then just think of yourself and do it. It will probably bring drama to your life.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    no are you stupid? she wanted a relationship before. maybe shes just tryen to get knocked up so that you could never leave her! thats wierd for a girl to say.

  • 1 decade ago

    No. no matter what girls say, there are always emotions attached and she will probably hope it leads to something more

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    She would probably end up hurt, so it depends on how you feel.

  • John
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    1 decade ago

    welll there is no /i love you/ involved. well if u wanna go with it go ahead ur desision

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    if shes ok with it ...its fine juss make it clear that it nuttin more than a bed buddy..

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